I guess my question would be...Are you still attracted to your wife? Or is there another woman...She probably was crying over that issue. If you are still attracted to her, then tell her that, just to resolve that issue with her. Maybe you just need to try different stuff, like more 4-play or even roll playing. There aint no shame in that, especially between husband and wife. Maybe you need to try more kinky types of sex or sexual positions. Just a little personal note, when I am with my soon to be wife and in the heat of the moment and I want to have sex, but am not aroused, I have her to...This might sound weird, but I have her lick my nipples. Hey, it works for me.

Hi lawernce,
i love her very much ,i ve only been like this since my last heart attack.
But thwith her she crys when she dont orgasim .She has always been like that , I cant take most of these pills because of my heart
thanks

Hi, I really think your wife needs to be a little more understanding about the situation and not take things so personal. She sounds like a really emotional person and this is wonderful. But, you have been thru a heart attack. This is a major thing. I would just feel very lucky and fortunate to still have you. You need to tell her all you are feeling and explain to her that this may be a problem, no ones to blame. Loving couples can work these type things out. Sex is not all there is to a loving relationship. It may be embarrasing, but if you are really concerned, speak to you primary care physican. The medication you are taking seems to be effecting you in this area. There are other alternatives and other medications. Not saying this is all you, just think your wife should thank her lucky stars she still has you here!!!!!!! God bless you both!

My wife is very under standing even when I didnt have the problem . If she dont cum she crys ,its her way

Well, until you can figure it out it's time to play around.
Buy a dildo, a vibrator. Get her to orgasim using your mouth, hands
or toys...You need to get innovative and playful and daring.
Your penis is not the only thing that will get her grooving.

Well, until you can figure it out it's time to play around.
Buy a dildo, a vibrator. Get her to orgasim using your mouth, hands
or toys...You need to get innovative and playful and daring.
Your penis is not the only thing that will get her grooving.

Hi, have u ever tried a penis ring? If not go out and buy one and put it on as soon as u get erect =)

I agree with alternatives. I think that you should work on getting her to climax other ways. I know that she would enjoy when it shows how much you do love her and care for her needs and then participate. I think that toys is the best way to go. I also think that you do need to discuss this problem with your doctor. There may be another type of medication for you.

Yes I agree with notorious! Buy a penis ring (thats what they are called). Once you get hard slide it down to the base of your penis and it keeps your penis hard. However you should not use it for more then 30 minutes at a time as it can slow the blood supply and cause damage!

Sounds like your heart has become weak from these heart attacks, are you recommended to do cardiovascular excersice, or is it a requirement? If you're not get on it, because the fact of the matter is that your heart is probably not be able to supply that much blood because it's weak. Ask your doctor how much cardio you can do, and if you can progressively increase it. Stick with it, and you'll heart will be healthier, you'll feel better from the endorphins, you'll have an increased libido, etc...

Just a thought

I highly recommend you to try zupro or viagra. After taking zupro I had rock hard erections and intense sexual drive. Viagra also effective but I feel headache after it.

You might want to consider talking to your doctor about this problem my first huband didn't have an heart attack but had to take high blood medicine and also had to take a blood thinner. He couln't stay hard for long period of time either. Check with your doctor he might have another type medicine that has less side effects. Good luck!!!!!

Please you men with ED see a doctor that will check your hormone,s.See a doctor who does hormone replacement treatment before any viagra etc.That is called but is not a treatment.