I know what you mean. Join the club hun, you are not alone. My ex, whom I dated for 2 years did it too. Try to break the silence with music, if in the car. Try to keep each other occupied, instead of thinking about what you aren't talking about. On the other hand, don't rule out secrets. Get him to talk when you are intimate. Not talk, no intimacy. Ask questions, and dont' be naieve. Overall though, it is probably nothing, just a guy phase. You might also try not talking to him. He will get sick of the silence too and eventually bring things up.