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Q: I'm Late!
asked by: lee on October 31st, 2003
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Well good news I am late for my period, technically I was supposed to get it on wednesday but I gave it an extra day and said thursday. Its now friday and I have no period. This is good!! Although I did take a test today and it was a negitive result. Maybe I took it to soon? You think or am I just not preggy? I was wishing for a positive so bad. I still have another test when do you suggest I take it? If I get my period I should just forget about the test right and keep trying for next month right? Oh I dunno? I would luv to hear some suggestions.

Luv lee Wink
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youngmama
replied on October 31st, 2003
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Thats awesome new hun!!! I would wait and take the next test in a week, I know it is really far away, but that way you will get a real dark line if it comes up positive! I am keeping my fingers crossed that you get a positive result, you deserve it!

Much love
-jessika-
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lee
replied on October 31st, 2003
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Aww.. Thanks so much!! I know i'm totally excited that i'm late but the negitive I got today kindof made me a little down.But there is still hope! Did you ever get a false negitive with cheyenne? Do you know women who had a false negitive? Maybe it was to soon? How are you and chey? And seana? How is her pregnancy moving along?

Luv lee
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youngmama
replied on October 31st, 2003
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lee wrote:
aww.. Thanks so much!! I know i'm totally excited that i'm late but the negitive I got today kindof made me a little down.But there is still hope! Did you ever get a false negitive with cheyenne? Do you know women who had a false negitive? Maybe it was to soon? How are you and chey? And seana? How is her pregnancy moving along?


Luv lee


i never got a negative result with cheyenne, but I was also about 8 weeks when I took the test too. I know plenty of people who have had false negatives! When seana first took at pregnancy test she got a negative and she only got a positive result because we took her to the doc and they did a blood test! I think she was about 10 weeks along at that time. As far as me and chey we are doing good! I got the most sleep last night than I have in 4 weeks! Lol we are going in for her 1 month visit on november 3rd(monday I think) last time we had her weighed she was 7lbs 10ozs! She is gaining weight pretty fast! Lol seana is doing better! She still has those indian burn looking things on her stomach and chest but no real complaints except for her back. Morning sickness is a thing of the past! Which is great because she was going nuts! Lol she is starting to show now and its too cute, but kevin can't tell her that! Hehe she went crazy yesterday when he pointed out how cute her belly was! Laughing so how has life been treating ya hun?? Well I hope!

Much love
-jessika-
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lee
replied on October 31st, 2003
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Thats the one thing with a baby I will miss, my sleep! Lol I luv to sleep but I would give up completely for a baby! I am glad to hear little chey is healthy, and gaining some chubbiness! Lol I am so happy for seana I cant wait for my belly! No more morning sickness! Yay for her! Its good to know shes doing better, those seatbelt burns must have hurt! Have you ever had like rug burn? Thats hurts but I bet not half as bad as those. As for her back pain she should get a nice massage, I luv them! Well thats good to know with twins she had a false negitive cause theres still hope for me! I did have spotting and I still have sore boobs they have been like that for about 2weeks. I hope I finally get preggy this month! You have no idea how tired sex will make you when you have it every second day for 3-4 months!Haha i'm just kidding. Wink

luv lee
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nikki_caro
replied on November 3rd, 2003
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Oh my gosh lee your late!!!!!!!!!!! Are you preggy! Have you taken another test??? What was the results! Let me know!
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lee
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Hi ladies, yes I was late.But yet again another disappointment, I got my period and I am not preggy. I didnt take the other test i'm going to save it for the end of this month. This is becoming very frustrating. I have no idea why I cant become pregnant? I really dont want to have to use another method yet, do you think I should just take a break and leave it for awhile or do you guys have any other suggestions? Oh my gosh I am seriously contemplating weather or not I was meant to have a child? It hurts so bad when you see pregnant women left right and center and you arent able to conceive one yourself. I hope the timing is just off and all I need is a little more time. How is everyone else doing jess, niki anything new and exciting? Thanks

luv lee
ps. Did anyone else here have a problem conceiving their children? I would luv some advise, thanks.
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Maybe you can go to the doc and see why not. Because some women have fertility problems. Im sorry you werent preggy yet! Im good. I thought I was preggy for a sec too but im not! So its ok.
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lee
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Yeh, thats ok I just dont want to go to the doc's. I am scared I dont want there to be anything wrong. If I dont go at least I can pretend everything is fine and not have to face the reality of possibly not having children. I am so scared that this will never happen for me. I am just going to wait it out a bit longer. And if we still cant make it I know I have some issues. I hope when you and jose decide to try you have better luck and less stress.

Luv lee
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Thanks. Im sure youll get your baby. Dont worry. I hope I dont have problems but if I do, its ok. I can adpot! I watched that last night on tv about people adopting. And I want to do that someday. But dont worry im sure youll get your chance! And youll be a great mommy too!
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lee
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Aww.. Thank you. You always keep me on the positive side. I hope you guys get your baby the first try. I wouldnt mind adopting, but I just hope it dosent come to that. Dont get me wrong I would totally do it and I would luv the child just the same i'm just set on being able to create a life with mike. You know what I mean? I dunno I just hope one day soon I will be a mommy.

Luv lee
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Well just remember that we are here for you if you would like to talk to us. Please dont get your hopes up to much because I that it will hurt you a lot if you dont end up being pregnant. Remember that we are all here to talk to you if you need someone. Can I ask you, why are you trying so hard? How old are you? How long have you been with your boyfriend!!?!

Well make sure that you keep me posted...Good luck!!

Stacie
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youngmomtobe
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Lee,
I was sitting here thinking and I dont understand why is that all us young teens can have babies when we arent even planning them and when a woman like your wants to have a baby they cant have one im just confused on the! Matter dont worry you will get your baby and when u do u will be a wonderful mother!!Keep us posted much love and god bless!!!


Jen
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sparklypixie12
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Sorry 2 hear that lee Sad I wish u all the best 4 the future & hope ur dream comes true soon
liz x
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lee
replied on November 6th, 2003
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I am 19 and I have been with him about 2 1/2 years? I just feel like this is the right time in my life and its what we both really want. I cant stop thinking about babies and being a mommy and i'm just so excited for it. Its something I have always dreamed of and now I have the means and life to be able to start my family. I guess I really shouldnt get so emotional over it but it starts to get to you after trying for so long and not getting any positive results. It makes you wonder if you will ever be able to have a child. I'm sorry. I shouldnt always be thinking about it and I should be trying to help other people. Thank you all for being here for me no matter what it means so much to me.

Luv lee
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lee
replied on November 6th, 2003
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I think everyone has a child for a reason and no one should ever regret it, so maybe there are a few things god feels I should do or learn before I can start my family? Who knows? Everything happens for a reason. I hope that I can be a good mommy and if I am anything like you mommy's in here I know I will be! You guys are great!

Luv lee
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casey rachelle
replied on November 6th, 2003
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Maybee....
You may be concentrating on it too much.. Just relax I suppose! Wink
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insurancegirl
replied on November 6th, 2003
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casey rachelle
replied on November 6th, 2003
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I agree with jen.. I'm sure that you have heard people tell you that if you concentrate too hard on it during sex then it is alot harder for you to come. Well if you concentrate on making sure you're preg. It will make it more difficult to conceive. Just take your time and it will come! Smile
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smith8500
replied on November 6th, 2003
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Like they said, I know it's hard but give it time sweetie. It will come when the time is right ok. I know it's hard, keep your chin up and stay positive!
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