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Q: Help a Girl Out - Penis Related Question

asked by: concernedgrrl on February 5th, 2005

New User

Hey guys,

i am seeing a guy, and we have a very active sex life - we probably see eachother 4-6 times a week, and often have sex multiple times every day we are together. The other day he told me he was going to have to "try not to have sex with me" for a couple days, because he was having what he described as "chafing" on or near the head of his penis, and said it was extremely sensitive, to the point of painful.

Does this kind of thing happen often from having a very active sex life, or should I make him get checked out, or what? I think it must be really painful for him, cause we will mess around now, and he wil get aroused, but he won't carry it to the point of orgasm for himself.

Any help would be so appreciated!!
Thanks!!

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Justin_Toronto

replied on February 5th, 2005

Experienced User

My ex and I had a similar sex life as you and your friend. Usually had sex a good 5-6 times a day around 5-7 days a week... Have never had a problem with chaffing. However, we always used lots of lubricant.

Chaffing usually occurs when a guy is overly rough and has a lot of sex (or masturbation) without adequate lubriant. A rash develops. This is one of the common problems with circumsized guys unfortunately. He should apply vaseline twice a day to reduce chaffing until the rash goes away. Once he's better and you two engage in intercourse again, be sure to use a lot of water based lubricant. (i.E. K-y jelly or astroglide).

Have fun,
justin

dominique

replied on February 17th, 2005

Experienced User

I agree. Make sure that he is properly lubricated. Also, as dumb as it sounds, ask him if maybe his clothes are rubbing up against it more than they should. That happens to my fiance a lot and sometimes it's just because of the type of boxers he's wearing or activities he's doing that day, like running. Good luck!

Granps

replied on February 18th, 2005

Experienced User

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He might be in overdrive........... He might be stroking himself off from the experience he has had with you.
Hey, this would be a complement. Ask him if he has "thoughts" (sexual { guys do this you know} 'bout you) when you're not together. He may be rubbing it thin!

Granps

replied on February 18th, 2005

Experienced User

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Granps

replied on February 18th, 2005

Experienced User

Concerned Girl

He probably saw "40 days"..... Fine! Make him wait for awhile before you ride him, again. Interesting to see what happens??????? Sounds selfish to me........
.......... He's not being considerate of you and probably won't in the future, either.........
Suggest........ Moving on!

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