Lack of trust weakens the relationship.

I would not go on a limb to say he is cheating on you, but he's obviously hiding something. What he's hiding is in the air though. Remember phone numbers are also recorded on his cell phone bill. :)

I dont see his cell phone bill, its a company cell phone. It goes to the company. He doesnt even see it. He is just an problem. There is more going on now since I have posted the message. I dont know what to do. I actually hate him right now. And I know that hate is a strong word, but that is how I feel right now. Ty for giving me a reply though

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I don't know, try smelling his penis or something when he comes home, at least that's what my aunt in law did to my uncle, but he countered her but like washing it without soap so it smelled regular. But I don't know what u should do. Just ask him if he loves you enough to submit to you. And I think you could also get his cellphone bill, or, like when he's asleep or in the shower just look at his call records on his phone, not telling he could probably delete them though. I dont know what you should do, but do something that would test him, and dont think that he hates you because a man could love his girl alot but still go out and have sex with others, not like im saying its alright for him to do so but yeah. Talk some more about it.

Well im only 13 so im a virgin but I saw on tv that if in bed he tries new moves or isnt interested in sex ne mor or he smeels like perfume that isnt yours he might b cheating

I was doing the same thing to my gf and unfortunatly I was cheating on her. I was cought red handed by here looking in my cell phone at numbers and text messages. I love my gf dearly and couldnt loose her I just had a huge week moment. And after some time she forgave me and now I love her even more. The moral to this long pointless story is that cell phones are the key to catching cheats. If he did it once and continues to act strange he is still cheating on you. Just ask him straight out if he gets defencive guess what he hasnt changed. Sorry for being blunt, but tred carefully.

You can tell a male is cheating by pretending to be a spy. That's my philosophy in a nutshell. Lol

Simply try talking with your b/f, ask him why you can't see his cell phone, if he gets defensive or changes the subject then you'll know why, but most importantly try talking to him, particularly talk about trust, maybe tell him how it makes you feel about him being so secretive all the time, and see if you can get him to kind of "open up" a bit more.

Just looking through some blogs and came across yours. I've just realised how old it is!! Hope things are going well with you now. Just one thing I wanted to say to offer some words of advice is that if he has cheated on you in the past, unless something drastic has changed in your life then he could do this again in the future. I truly believe that couples shouldn't have secrets from each other and it looks like he's keeping a few.

Hope things have worked out ok.

Seduce him and initiate a "kinky" night.
Tie him down....And tell him you'll be right back and check his cell phone.
If he has any information of another woman (possible partner).
Prepare to mutilate his genitals!

I'm just kidding. But I guess you could just talk to him.

if you cant check in any other ways here what im doing set him up you know what kind of weman he likes because you are one of them find a person he doesnt know have them walk up and flirt with him when he is out somewhere make sure he dont know this person and doesnt know you know this person but it is someone you trust to tell you the truth and have them do that more than a few times like they just bumped in to each other again its fate and when they tell you what happend and what they said to each other then you will know good luck

If he is cheating on you, Believe me it will come out ,You don't have to go looking it will sooner or later come your way, Just sit back and act as though nothing is wrong , He'll make a mistake sooner or later ,and when he knows your not so intrested in the phone he will lay it down ,and not worry about you looking at it , Thats when all calls will be noted from you . Cheating catches up with you ..Have patience and you will win in the end..Good Luck

wow, that's pretty much the dumbest advice I've ever heard....unbelievable.

bottom line is he's hiding something.....and obviously knows you want to snoop so he's not going to let you look at his stuff. and getting caught snooping through his phone or something else will make him lose all trust in you. if you can't handle that, move on. a relationship without complete trust is misery. find someone that you don't have reason to doubt..there's lots of guys and girls out there...and if you're engaged - wake up before you make a mistake and add to the % of divorces.

by the way in MOST cases...once a cheater...always a cheater.
That's straight from a guys mouth.......

if his cheating
1. he will cancel dates at the last minute
2, he wont give you his home number just his mobile
3. he will tell you when to call his cell or has it stwiched off at smiliar times during the day
4. he does not give u sat night date but sunday or tuesday date cause he want to catch up with friends
5. says his busy
6. takes ages to reply to your text messages
7 wont introduce you to his friends or family
8 has his profile setting to single in facebook
9. brags about other people sex life and how your sex life
10. all of the sudden tries new sex moves on you or seems more confident or experinced in the bedroom