How Can You Tell a Man Is Cheating? Posted: 02-05-05 18:00pm
I am curious if my fiancee is cheating on
me. He has in the past but has told me
that he hasnt since then. I havent caught
him since then, but he still acts funny
sometimes when I bring up his affair in
the past. Then he gets all deffensive
about it. We have moved in together and I
transffered my phone to the new house. He
disconnected his and wont give anyone the
new number. All his phone calls come to
his cell phone. The only person that has
called him here is his mother.And when I
ask to use the cell phone he tells me no
because he doesnt want me looking through
it. Whats the deal? Thanks
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 02-16-05 17:45pm
Lack of trust weakens the relationship.
I would not go on a limb to say he is
cheating on you, but he's obviously hiding
something. What he's hiding is in the
air though. Remember phone numbers are
also recorded on his cell phone bill. :)
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LisaQSanders
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2005 Posts: 13 Location: texas
Posted: 02-16-05 19:02pm
I dont see his cell phone bill, its a
company cell phone. It goes to the
company. He doesnt even see it. He is
just an problem. There is more going on
now since I have posted the message. I
dont know what to do. I actually hate him
right now. And I know that hate is a
strong word, but that is how I feel right
now. Ty for giving me a reply though
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 02-17-05 17:32pm
No problem...
If you need to rant or talk or whatever...
Feel free to shoot me a pm.
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fallingup
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Feb 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Waco, Texas
Posted: 02-21-05 18:06pm
I don't know, try smelling his penis or
something when he comes home, at least
that's what my aunt in law did to my
uncle, but he countered her but like
washing it without soap so it smelled
regular. But I don't know what u should
do. Just ask him if he loves you enough
to submit to you. And I think you could
also get his cellphone bill, or, like when
he's asleep or in the shower just look at
his call records on his phone, not telling
he could probably delete them though. I
dont know what you should do, but do
something that would test him, and dont
think that he hates you because a man
could love his girl alot but still go out
and have sex with others, not like im
saying its alright for him to do so but
yeah. Talk some more about it.
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pervertedass
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 5 Location: PLano,TX
.... Posted: 06-09-05 13:30pm
Well im only 13 so im a virgin but I saw
on tv that if in bed he tries new moves or
isnt interested in sex ne mor or he smeels
like perfume that isnt yours he might b
cheating
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john128
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Joined: 12 Jul 2005 Posts: 3
Hate to Admit to It Posted: 07-12-05 16:38pm
I was doing the same thing to my gf and
unfortunatly I was cheating on her. I
was cought red handed by here looking in
my cell phone at numbers and text
messages. I love my gf dearly and
couldnt loose her I just had a huge week
moment. And after some time she forgave
me and now I love her even more. The
moral to this long pointless story is that
cell phones are the key to catching
cheats. If he did it once and continues
to act strange he is still cheating on
you. Just ask him straight out if he
gets defencive guess what he hasnt
changed. Sorry for being blunt, but tred
carefully.
You can tell a male is cheating by
pretending to be a spy. That's my
philosophy in a nutshell. Lol
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Boxing_Is_Fun
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 10-11-05 22:06pm
Simply try talking with your b/f, ask him
why you can't see his cell phone, if he
gets defensive or changes the subject then
you'll know why, but most importantly try
talking to him, particularly talk about
trust, maybe tell him how it makes you
feel about him being so secretive all the
time, and see if you can get him to kind
of "open up" a bit more.
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kenya2006
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Joined: 23 Feb 2006 Posts: 9 Location: UK
Posted: 03-09-06 07:44am
Just looking through some blogs and came
across yours. I've just realised how old
it is!! Hope things are going well with
you now. Just one thing I wanted to say
to offer some words of advice is that if
he has cheated on you in the past, unless
something drastic has changed in your life
then he could do this again in the future.
I truly believe that couples shouldn't
have secrets from each other and it looks
like he's keeping a few.
Hope things have worked out ok.
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Quacker
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Joined: 16 Mar 2006 Posts: 6 Location: California
Posted: 03-16-06 02:08am
Seduce him and initiate a "kinky" night.
Tie him down....And tell him you'll be
right back and check his cell phone.
If he has any information of another woman
(possible partner).
Prepare to mutilate his genitals!
I'm just kidding. But I guess you could
just talk to him.
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pink princess
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Joined: 05 Mar 2008 Posts: 1
test him Posted: 03-05-08 16:55pm
if you cant check in any other ways here
what im doing set him up you know what
kind of weman he likes because you are one
of them find a person he doesnt know have
them walk up and flirt with him when he is
out somewhere make sure he dont know this
person and doesnt know you know this
person but it is someone you trust to tell
you the truth and have them do that more
than a few times like they just bumped in
to each other again its fate and when they
tell you what happend and what they said
to each other then you will know good luck
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keltre
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Joined: 29 Mar 2008 Posts: 2
Lisa Q Sanders Posted: 03-29-08 23:29pm
If he is cheating on you, Believe me it
will come out ,You don't have to go
looking it will sooner or later come your
way, Just sit back and act as though
nothing is wrong , He'll make a mistake
sooner or later ,and when he knows your
not so intrested in the phone he will lay
it down ,and not worry about you looking
at it , Thats when all calls will be noted
from you . Cheating catches up with you
..Have patience and you will win in the
end..Good Luck
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Questions4u
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 38
Posted: 05-06-08 10:07am
fallingup
wrote:
I don't know, try smelling his
penis or something when he comes
home, at least that's what my aunt in law
did to my uncle, but he countered her but
like washing it without soap so it smelled
regular. But I don't know what u should
do. Just ask him if he loves you enough
to submit to you. And I think you could
also get his cellphone bill, or, like when
he's asleep or in the shower just look at
his call records on his phone, not telling
he could probably delete them though. I
dont know what you should do, but do
something that would test him, and dont
think that he hates you because a man
could love his girl alot but still go out
and have sex with others, not like im
saying its alright for him to do so but
yeah. Talk some more about
it.
wow, that's pretty much the dumbest advice
I've ever heard....unbelievable.
bottom line is he's hiding
something.....and obviously knows you want
to snoop so he's not going to let you look
at his stuff. and getting caught snooping
through his phone or something else will
make him lose all trust in you. if you
can't handle that, move on. a
relationship without complete trust is
misery. find someone that you don't have
reason to doubt..there's lots of guys and
girls out there...and if you're engaged -
wake up before you make a mistake and add
to the % of divorces.
by the way in MOST cases...once a
cheater...always a cheater.
That's straight from a guys mouth.......
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