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Q: I Have Some Worries, Appreciate Advice!

asked by: Fubar on February 5th, 2005

New User

Hello ill try to keep this simple.

I am 17 and will be coming sexually active soon. However, after reading through these forums i'm slightly worried about anxiety causing premature ejaculation.

If I become very aroused before masturbation then I will ejaculate quickly, and worry a similiar situation could happen when having sex. If I dont watch any porn or anything then it takes much longer.

Do I have anything to worry about? A friend said that he came quickly his first time few times but he doesnt anymore. Just need a general opinion needed really, because the more I think about it, the more I worry.

Replies(2)

dominique

replied on February 17th, 2005

Experienced User

Try to calm down. Your first time hardly ever goes perfectly how planned and the best way to deal with it is just to be calm and open about things with your girlfriend. If you're really worried about not lasting long why not take care of it yourself a few hours before? :wink: that way it may take you longer and you'll be a little less nervous.

Granps

replied on February 18th, 2005

Experienced User

Fubar

Masturbate before you get together w/ her, or while you're with her. Sometimes, this helps turn a lady on. She "may" feel that she is such a turn-on that you can't control yourself. Some (not all) like this experience. I have had women tell me they like to watch " it cum out"., but be prepared to go the distance w/ her. This is extremely important, guy. If you can't stay in the "saddle", then finger / orually her. Hey, she's is this for pleasure, too.

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