This month is the last month in which I will surly know that ttc went on for nothing, I havent slept with my ex since we split, but think I have this month. So now im waiting for af to arrive!! Im geting strange pains each side, like pulling pains, strectching maybe. They dont feel like af pains, which is weird. Its been 35 days now.. So what does every1 think I should do? Wait till monday see if she shows?Its just these feelings are weird and making me abit warey. Also I know what every one says, the mintue you stop activly 'trying' you normally get pg.