My lips around my vagina have become swollen after rough dry sex before, but most recently I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and my vagina area was very sore afterwards, even sore for a couple days, it felt dry and irritated. Once it healed up alittle, I became intoxicated one night and we ended up having rough sex again. This time it became swollen and sore again, but after 2 days most of the swelling is gone, and it seems like it is back to normal except there is a lump in my clitoris, it's kinda abnormal but it was much larger right after we had sex, it's not as big but it's been 3 days and it's still there, nothing else is swollen, please someone explain to me what and the hell is going on and if I will ever be normal again. The lump is kinda've hard and is painful if squeezed. Please I know this seems so gross, but it's my body! And I think i've destroyed it !!!! Help!!!!