Me and my boyfriend have been together for
about a year and a half, and I always have
this feeling that I always want to be with
him and when ever he isnt doing anything
I want to do something with him. We have
gotten into fights about it because he
thinks im being controlling, but I can't
help it. I always want to be with him! I
don't know what to do! Does anyone have
any suggestions about what to do?!?! I
want to keep our relationship for a loong
time and hopefully get married and have
kids but sometimes I have a feeling i'm
pushing him away. I'm getting better with
my controlling and letting him do what he
wants but i'm still having a hard time
with it! He goes to school full time and
has pretty much a full time job and he
lives 45min away from me and when he has a
day that he isn't doing anything and I
want to do something most times he would
and other times he would be like "no I
dont feel like it" so I complain and we
get into a fight and he changes his mind,
is this right? Or should I stop that?
Can anyone help me?!?!
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prettygirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2005 Posts: 7 Location: canada
Posted: 02-10-05 12:28pm
Muah I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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scottb8855
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 35 Location: Portage, Wi
I wish there's a girl who loved me as much
as you did to your boyfriend，lo'l
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horse_friesian
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2005 Posts: 3 Location: El Paso, Texas
Reply Posted: 04-22-05 23:50pm
You have every right to feel connected to
the person that you chose to spend the
rest of your life with! Becareful not to
push him away, though!
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anxietyfreak
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2005 Posts: 97 Location: N/A
Posted: 07-01-05 01:05am
Prettybabie,
I feel the same exact way about my b/f, I
always wanna be with him constantly, and
me and my b/f have been together for a
year now. I always wanna be with him all
the time and we fight like crazy, I mean
we fight so much that even our parents
cant stand anymore. But we love each
other so much that we always make up like
5 minutes after a fight. But I can relate
to u becaz I know exactly what your
talking about. Like I will go to my b/f's
house then when I get over there he always
wants his problem friends to come over,
and then he treats me like caca when there
around. I mean I dont care if he hangs
out with them it's just that we haven't
spent 1 full day together without his
friends around. And i'm scared becaz
lately it's like my b/f doesn't seem to
care if he even gets to see me ne more or
even bother to call me. He's been up his
friends asses long enough, and I cant take
it ne more? Do u have ne advice for me?
The only thing that I can tell u to do is
to keep complaining until u get ur way
becaz men are all suckers and they some
how always get their way!
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anxietyfreak
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2005 Posts: 97 Location: N/A
Posted: 07-01-05 01:07am
(health question) meant * like caca* im
loosing my mind sorry!
