Hi am just wondering how others feel about this.

I have had infertility problems for 8 years.Then for 5 of those years no one knew what the problem was,i just didn't have a cycle for months and months at a time they just gave me clomid pills, said this will fix it. Even though they didn't even know what the problem was.I finally saw a real fertility doctor, he told me I had pcos,1mth later I had surgery lazoring the cyst from my ovary . I have cycles now, just sometimes the cyst come back,then go away. I have had to take shots,every month for almost 4 years,to help me ovulate. Well, my husband & I went to have insemination done, learned that he has no sperm! Not low sperm, uhm no sperm!
i want to have a baby bad!! We both do, but I am just wondering if any one can tell me how they feel about sperm donors? I'd love to hear what a guy has to say about this. I am not comfy talking with my husband about this, because I do not know how he feels being that he may never be able to father a child of his own.(i know how I felt thinking I wouldn't be able to get preg) how would he feel about me carrying another mans baby! I mean, it would be his baby, our baby! Just how would a man really feel about that, if they really want to have a child. He is way for adopting! And so am i, but I really want to have a baby, go through all of that together. Watching this baby grow in me! And then bring a baby into the world together! But I want a baby... Be it adopt or birth, even both..
I hope I haven't confused you, help!

I have tried to talk to him about it, maybe its just me... But I don't want to hurt him, or anything! How do you feel about sperm donor's?
How do men feel about this?

Thank you