I recently got caught up in the heat of the moment with a guy i'm dating and ended up having unprotected sex with him . . . The jerk just "assumed" I was on the pill and ejaculated inside me without consulting me first. Obviously i'm not planning on seeing him/sleeping with him again.

The problem is that sense then I haven't been able to shake the fear that I could be pregnant . . . I'm a college sophomore with big plans for my future . . . I can't deal with having a baby.

I've been experiencing some weird physical things . . . I'm thinking that could be signs of early pregnancy . . . A sort of weakness in my limbs that comes and goes, i'm tired a lot (moreso than usual, anyway), and I have a headache that I can't seem to get rid of. I've also been feeling slightly nauseous after some meals, but that could also be due to the fact that i'm still re-adjusting to college cafeteria food (blech!) after a long break. I know that the fatigue and headache could just be attributed to stress about this whole situation . . . Could they also be signs of early pregnancy?

It's only been two full days since the sexual encounter . . . Is it even possible to feel symptoms this early? At what point should I try a pregnancy test? My period isn't due for another two weeks . . . I don't know if I can handle the stress till then.

Also, if it turns out that I am pregnant, I think that I would probably get an abortion . . . I'm too young to have a baby, I haven't even figured my own life out yet. But as a college student, my financial situation is currently pretty rocky, and I don't know if I can afford to get the procedure done. Would it be unfair to ask this guy to help me out, so long as he is agreeable to an abortion? He is just as responsible for this as I am, if not moreso, because he just assumed that it was ok to ejaculate without pulling out.

Any help would be very much appreciated.