Joined: 02 Feb 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Wooster, Ohio
Depression Is Depressing And So Is Cutting Posted: 02-03-05 11:04am
:( i'm sad all the time. I have morbid
thoughts that scare my family and some
friends. I do have depression. But i'm
not sure my medicine is working right. I
still have the same feeling as I did 3
months ago before I started taking prozac.
My mom doesn't know what to do for me n e
more. I want to live w/ my grandma but my
mom just won't let me. I have major
problems at school and home. I have bad
grades. "my life sux". And that's not
the depression talking. People have to
understand that those people that cut
aren't cutting to kill themselves. They
do it to get the pain inside of them out
in the open. The cuts represent our life.
Cut, bloody, scary, and harmful! We have
our own way of dealing w/ pain. People
also have to understand that it doesn't
hurt. If your kid cuts then try to
understand why they do what they do ok
don't yell at them for doing it. :)
you'll have a happier
family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :wink:
*- cut-up-angel
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Cut-up-angel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Wooster, Ohio
Re: Depression Is Depressing And So Is Cutting Posted: 02-03-05 11:06am
:arrow:
cut-up-angel
wrote:
:( i'm sad all the time. I
have morbid thoughts that scare my family
and some friends. I do have depression.
But i'm not sure my medicine is working
right. I still have the same feeling as
I did 3 months ago before I started taking
prozac. My mom doesn't know what to do
for me n e more. I want to live w/ my
grandma but my mom just won't let me. I
have major problems at school and home.
I have bad grades. "my life sux". And
that's not the depression talking.
People have to understand that those
people that cut aren't cutting to kill
themselves. They do it to get the pain
inside of them out in the open. The cuts
represent our life. Cut, bloody, scary,
and harmful! We have our own way of
dealing w/ pain. People also have to
understand that it doesn't hurt. If your
kid cuts then try to understand why they
do what they do ok don't yell at them for
doing it. :) you'll have a happier
family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :wink:
*-
cut-up-angel
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nadeentears
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Canada
Depression Id Depressing And So Cutting Posted: 02-08-05 11:07am
You have to consult your family doctor to
see the reason of your depression.
Sometimes u might have illness that might
cause depression. I have lupus and part
of that symptoms is having depression and
anexity. For three years I take effexor I
feel better. This one helps a lot it
depends on your case u can not get it
without doctors' presribtion. Try to
convince your mom to go for a while and
live with your grandma if that will give
you comfort and happines. Do your best to
join out door activities, don't ever sit
alone and think about your depression this
will put u down. Listen to classic music,
do gardening,watch funny programs, read
practise sport do yoga. All these
activities are not hard to do it. It will
help you a lot to get rid of your
depression. It is in your hand to help
your self to recover from depression.
My heart is with you
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Sweetestgrl0717
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 8 Location: U.S.A
Noo... Posted: 02-08-05 11:47am
There are other ways when it comes to
dealing with pain and depression or even
anger.. Not cutting urself.. You are
hurting ur self not helping to deal with
the pain.. When I am depressed and have a
lot of anger I like to be by myself..
Listen to music that I like.. Take a walk
or even a jog.. You shouldnt cut
yourself.. You may think that it helps
but it doesnt!! You should prolly see a
family doctor maybe that would help more
than me.. Well good luck sweety!! Keep
me posted on whats up!!
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nadeentears
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Canada
Depression Is Depressing And So Is Cutting Posted: 02-10-05 11:15am
Duke ellington said ( a problem is a
chance to do your best )
arioguthrie said ( you can't have a
light without a dark to stick it in )
andy warhos said ( they always say that
time changes things but you actually have
to change them yourself )
think of all these philoophys and start
to change your life, and yourself try to
love yourself first u will love everything
around you. I'm sure u will live your
life as it should be to live. Life is
worth to be lived. I feel that with the
love of family, friends and yourself that
u will get through the dark times.
My heart is with u
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nadeentears
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Canada
What Should I Do Posted: 02-11-05 19:52pm
You are only 14. This is not the age of
love. Forget about it and concentrate on
your studying. You still have time to
love and be loved. Sooner you will reach
the age that you can decide what is good
for you and who will deserve your love and
life. Take your time. Days and years
pass fast. One day you will remember
these moments and you will laugh at
yourself
my best wishes to you for peace of mind
!!
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nataliedee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Feb 2005 Posts: 34 Location: surrey, bc
Posted: 02-12-05 23:28pm
Umm thats a really stupid way to look at
things. I'm sorry that you're depressed
but maybe you shouldn't use your cutting
phase as a trend and then it might go
away. You seem like you're proud of what
you do.
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MissJudged
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2005 Posts: 8 Location: new York
Posted: 06-29-05 10:23am
Noooo she is not proud of what she
does.Trust me.She is not.Im saying this
because of experience.And all she said its
true! We dont cut ourselves for
"attention". And when we do cut ourselves
it doesnt hurt. For example me, I cut
myself on my stomach because no one can
see them. When I do cut myself it doesnt
hurt me because when I cry my heart starts
to hurt and I dont want it to hurt there
so I jsut cut myself in my stomach so I
can pay attention to the blkood and not my
problems or my heart..Cut up angel I know
how you are fgeeling.And its not
good,people say people like us should get
a therapist but I dont really recommend it
to you because it doesnt work..I tried
it..Look if you need someone to talk to
or anything maybe I can hep and you can
help me to0o email me at pri
incesz190@hotmail.Com
this an lead to worst things I dont want
that to happen to you please write back
.
Thank you
-missjudged
