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Q: So Painful

asked by: lil_bunny on February 3rd, 2005

New User

I don't know if any of you remember me .. But I haven't been here for over 2 weeks because I just couldn't bring myself to do anything ...... My fiance and I lost our baby 2 weeks 3 days ago..... And it was the most painful experience of my life. I never really wanted to be a young mother or anything .. But now that my baby is gone I realise it was something I did want I was just starting to get used to the idea and was getting ready to tell my parents!!!! I was almost 12 weeks!!!! I was just so totally devistated!!!!!!!!!

I think we are over the worst of the emotionl pain ... Though of course it still hurts!!! I started crying when I realised this was the week I was going to tell everyone! I would have been 14 weeks tomorrow!!! And of course now I am surrounded by babies .. My sister and cousin both had their babies around the time we lost ours.

We are going to start trying again in 2 or 3 years ... When I am almost through uni. I can't wait until the day I get to be a mummy!!!!!! I miss my baby so much!!! And we never ever got to meet!!!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Replies(6)

BrianBaby

replied on February 3rd, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss!! I'm here if you want to talk!!

pinkbaby

replied on February 3rd, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Your in a tough situation, but remember, everything happens for a reason, even if its something that hurts you. Just think, god took your baby for a reason, he has bigger plans for him/her, and your babys a little angel now.
Good luck on your future pregnancies!! <3

Innchik18

replied on February 3rd, 2005

Experienced User

Oh hun I know exactly how you feel. I lost my baby at 9 weeks on dec. 1 and it was one of the worst experience I had to go through. Its so weird cuz even until this day the weeks are just haunting me. I would have been 18 weeks monday and its so sad but I still read on babycenter.Com what my baby would have been developing this week.. How big it would have been.. Although the pain is gone.. But the thoughts still haunt you. My husband and I are actuall sort of trying for another baby... Im gonna test in a few days.. So just take care of yourself...Theres noting you coul have done. Our little angels are in heaven.. Think of it this way.. And good luck!! Pm me if you want to talk..

Btw.. I dont think i've met you.. Im daisy 18, from oregon married since this june '04..

Krista Kai

replied on February 3rd, 2005

Experienced User

I'm soooo sorry to hear about your loss. I hate to say this but when I was first thinking I was pregnant and just after I found out I was there were times when I hoped maybe i'd just lose it and that way everything would just go away. I was just starting my senior year and the last think I wanted to be was pregnant. But then something changed, especially when I first heard his heartbeat, and I don't know what i'd do if I lost my baby. I'm really really sorry you lost your baby. :cry:

littlered

replied on February 3rd, 2005

Experienced User

Sorry about your lost. Like everybody has said. He/she is a little angel now. And he/she is looking over you.

Aniyah05

replied on February 4th, 2005

Experienced User

i'm sorry hun. I also lost a baby a year ago and it is a very painful experience. Everything happens for a reason, maybe it's just not your time to be a mommy. Your baby is in heaven w/ god where he or she belongs.

I'm sorry ::cry::

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