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Q: ******help! How Can I Tell My Dad?******
asked by: SacredxBabyxEyes on February 1st, 2005
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Im only 16...And im scared shittless....I had been having unprotected sex with only one guy (of course...Hehe) and I think im pregnant. I thought I was like 3 times before but I was stressed, and my boyfriend was right I wasnt pregnant. I want a baby so bad and I know I could handle it cuz I raised my little brothers...But if I am pregnant...Which I think I am ...Like 89% chance...Which is alot..How can I tell my dad? He would disown me...Hate me...Never wanna see me again...Im scared...Im ready to cry just htinkin of it...Please help me...I need it...Thanx...
<3 sacredxeyes
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kitty2luv
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Are u or are u not preg????? How old are u ? How old is yr b/f do u or him have a job?
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SacredxBabyxEyes
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Um...
Thats the thing...Im not sure if I am pregnant but I looked up signs and I have like almost all...And im 16 and my boyfriend is 18....Hes in the army after he graduates and I work for wendys and a dry cleaners...
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SacredxBabyxEyes
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Um...
Thats the thing...Im not sure if I am pregnant but I looked up signs and I have like almost all...And im 16 and my boyfriend is 18....Hes in the army after he graduates and I work for wendys and a dry cleaners...
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cherriegurl
replied on February 1st, 2005
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U need to not stress ur self out!
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kitty2luv
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Edo not stress makes yr period come later ive had plenty or preg scares and have been told that the more u stress the longer its gonan come .. When is yr period do????
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SacredxBabyxEyes
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Period
Its due this coming 12th...How can I tell my dad if I am prego?
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Jocelyne
replied on February 2nd, 2005
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Hi you just going to have to tell him there really is no easy way!! Maybe you should go on the pill and use protection...If your this worried and feel like your going to be in trouble because your pregnant maybe your not ready to have a baby. Being scared your in trouble will be the last of your worries it'll be mostly how are you going to raise a baby.
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a2ck418
replied on February 2nd, 2005
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Sweetie I think you are ovulating right around this time, if thats the case its 89% yet, use protection or refrain from sex-at least until you get your period and then see a doctor about the pill, patch or shot! Good luck!
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pinkbaby
replied on February 2nd, 2005
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So shes not on birth controll, and doesnt use condoms because she wants a baby, but shes afraid to tell her dad if she is pregnant...

You could do it in a cute way...(this is what I did) I bought a baby bib that says "i love my daddy" and put the pg test inside the tag.

You could write him a letter if you think hes gunna explode on you, I get my feelings out better on paper.

Or just tell him, face to face. Ask him "what would you do if I told you I was pg?" he will ask you why (and then tell him) or state his opinion (and then you still have to tell him) but at least youll have an idea of how he is going to react.
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littlered
replied on February 2nd, 2005
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Hate to sound like I am judgeing but I am trying not to. If you are 16 years old. You should want to have a baby right now. You should be a teenager first. I know you said you helped raised your brothers but that should show right there what it is like to have a baby at a young age. ( don't really know how old your brothers are ). Don't you want to go to the prom. If you had a baby there is a chance that you might not get to go.

But if you are pregnant you need to tell your dad. You may think that you dad would do all that you said but it may turn out that he won't. There is dads out there who say stuff like but the reason why they say that is because they think that if they tell their daughters that they won't go out and get theirself pregnant. But like pinkbaby said if you think he is going to explode on you then write him a letter.

I hope I helped you some and I am sorry if I sound like I was judgeing you. I try not to judge people but sometimes that is what it sounds like and I really ain't judgeing you. Just try to give you some advice. And be some help.
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on February 2nd, 2005
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You need to chill. You don't even know, you haven't even missed your period yet. If you're this stressed after having sex, maybe you aren't ready for sex. Definitely not for a baby.
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SacredxBabyxEyes
replied on February 3rd, 2005
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Well...
First off I wanna thank you all for tha support...I feel relieved...But my bf and I talked and its ok now...We made our decision ....Um...I am starting the pill by the way too after I get my period...Thats if I get it...Well thanx a bunch everbody...Gots to go now... <3 me
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