Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 02-03-05 19:47pm
And now she just posted so it completley
voids out my comment about her not writing
back. But im still serious about the
other stuff!!!!!!!!!
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 02-03-05 21:53pm
babymama2005
wrote:
and steen sometimes
"shrinking" someone is not what they
need!!!!!! She needed someone to talk
to, not someone to belittle
her!
huh? I have to wonder
what your experience with 'shrinking' is?
That has nothing to do with belittling,
it has to do with support and helping
people figuring out their options and
tehir reasons for why they feel as they
do.
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Danyell037
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 10
Re: *****so Scared...i Need Yur Help Please!!!!***** Posted: 02-04-05 07:56am
Well I think you are to young but if you
are pregnant you should tell your dad. He
might help you and give you the support
that you need.And just becouse you are
pregnant does not mean you cant go to
college. If you are pregnant than you
need an edecaution for your baby. Im 25
and due march 22 this is my first baby and
ya it is scary.There is nothing easy about
it. Please think about telling your
parents.
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-04-05 11:57am
I didn't have sex until I was 19. And I
am now 24. But I know plenty of people
who have babies at the age of 14 and 15.
And I seen how hard it was for them. And
they both quit school. One was going to
quit when she turned 16 anyways but the
school that kicked the other out. Yes I
know she probably would have had a good
case to carry to court but she didn't have
the money to. Also I think it was the
school who told her parents that she was
pregnant. So stop and think do you want
to be the one to tell your dad or would
you want somebody else to. And which one
would hurt your dad more to. To me I
think having somebody else tell your dad
that you are pregnant (if you are
pregnant) would hurt him more then if it
was you who hurt. No I don't have kids
yet but I know the cost of living and I
know that shouldn't matter but in my
opinion you should think about that. I
know you said you had a job and that your
boyfriend does to. But that is something
you should think about. But I guess
before you think about all this you need
to take a test to find out.
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 617 Location: Arizona
Re: *****so Scared...i Need Yur Help Please!!!!***** Posted: 02-04-05 13:45pm
sacredxbabyxeyes
wrote:
i mean im not ready for a
baby although I want
one...
you "raised" a little sibling, so you know
you could handle one...
And you want one, but your not ready for
one?...
Doesnt make sence.
And im sure your dads not gunna kill you,
he might be mad, but hes not going to
homicide you... At least I would hope
not...
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 02-04-05 16:08pm
Steen what I meant was that your acting
like a psycologist too much. Yes we
understand that you know what the text
books say but sometimes when you give
someone advice in text book terms it makes
it sound as if they are completley
ingnorant. What I meant was instead of
just treating her like another patient,
sometimes you need to actually put emotion
in it. She is 16, she is not an adult yet
and I know better than anyone that
sometimes when a 16 year old asks for
advice she needs a friend more than a
therapist.
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SacredxBabyxEyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Pa
People Guess What... Posted: 02-08-05 17:50pm
Its me again...Im back...I wana thank
everyone for the support....But I still
ddnt get my period...But my bf and I
bought 2 tests and we tested them
both...Im not pregnant!!!! But um...Thanx
again for the support...
Now I gots to go...But thanx again...
<3 mee <3
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~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 353 Location: eng
Posted: 02-08-05 18:46pm
Ah wow im happy 4 ya hun, im glad your
going to go on bcp. Goodluck, take
care.X.X
