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Q: Please Can Some1 Give Me An Answer??!?!
asked by: prettybabie on February 1st, 2005
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Me and my bf have been together for about a year and a half now and we've been sexually active, but when we get down to having sex and he goes really really hard it hurts sometimes, and other times it blows me off the wall!! Does anyone know why it hurts when a guy goes hard?!? And does this happen to anyone else?!? Is there something wrong with me? Or can something happen if he continues to go hard??? Please can someone give me an answer!!!!!!!
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Princess385
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Hmmm...He's probably hitting your cervix, if that's possible!! He's probably going to deep and maybe have him lay off a bit of going that deep if it hurts. I've had that happen to me as well before. You also might be shorter from opening to cervix than some other women reason it' shappening to you!! Just have him go a bit easier and you should be okay!!
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prettybabie
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Thanks! I've told him to stop some times cuz it sometimes really hurts and I get tingly feelings down my legs, I find it odd, but I think i'll tell him to just lay off going that hard! I also have another question, i've never been able to make myself have an orgasm, I don't know how to get one!!! He's tried everything and nothing happens. I try to think sexual thoughts but it just doesn't work!! Can someone tell me the best way to have an orgasm?? I've heard from sooo many people that you have to do it yourself and you'll beable to get one everytime, is that true? Cuz i've also tried to do it myself, and my clit is really sensitive and I can't get myself to get over the hill!!! Can someone give me some pointers?!?!!
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Princess385
replied on February 1st, 2005
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prettybabie wrote:
thanks! I've told him to stop some times cuz it sometimes really hurts and I get tingly feelings down my legs, I find it odd, but I think i'll tell him to just lay off going that hard! I also have another question, i've never been able to make myself have an orgasm, I don't know how to get one!!! He's tried everything and nothing happens. I try to think sexual thoughts but it just doesn't work!! Can someone tell me the best way to have an orgasm?? I've heard from sooo many people that you have to do it yourself and you'll beable to get one everytime, is that true? Cuz i've also tried to do it myself, and my clit is really sensitive and I can't get myself to get over the hill!!! Can someone give me some pointers?!?!!



try doing kegels....That's where you tighten the muscle down there by sqeezing it. If it helps when you're peeing try stoppign peeing to get the feeling, then do it when you're not peeing. That did it for me!! Lol :)
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prettybabie
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Wow, i've never heard of that one before! I'll try it. So its like I have to try to stop myself from peeing, so I get this feeling and then do it while we are havig sex? Do I have it correct!?!
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Princess385
replied on February 1st, 2005
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No don't do it while you're having sex.....Do it during the day whenever you're like sitting around or what not. But while your peee try stoping the pee so you can feel the muscles that you're using to stp the pee from coming out. Then do that during the day and you'll get tighter and what not and it does something to help with orgasms. Now it's not going to work over night, ti's going to take a few weeks. :)
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prettybabie
replied on February 1st, 2005
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Ahhh okay, now I gotcha! Lol, well i'll try that out and i'll let you know! Thanks for the tip!
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