Whats up im lildreamer.......How old are you?.....If u dont mind me asking. How do you know he loves you if he broke up with you? If you still have sex w/him....Then probably he is w/ others..Or maybe not. Maybe he just messing around w/ girls and doesnt sleep with them. Why do you say he hurt you? In what ways? I think you should stop sleeping with him just to make sure he doesnt keep coming back for that.(dont be offended) maybe if you dont give it to him..He might somewhere else. I know what your saying cuz ive been through it and im only 17. What does he say about u being pregnant? Take a test and find out for sure. Take a blood test too. If he loves you he should be with you. Why wouldnt he be? I dont know the whole story between you too but I feel u..Im going through a heartache myself. Trust is something...............Huge....If theres no trust , theres no relationship.

Take care!

Hay ya im new, im shey
i feel really sad for you, take a test and go from there, there is no point worrying about it if your not, but if you are then take action. My thought is that if he has been doing what he has been doing then whos to say if you are pregnant hes not gonna continue with the same habits throughout the pregnancy and after the baby is born. I am 20 and am gonna have a baby in 5 weeks the father is 24, we were together 2 months when I found out I was pregnant, he was happy and all was good but within 3 weeks of him finding out he was gonna be a father he started dwelling and doing all that he did be4 we met, going out drinking chatting up girls getting numbers and all that a single guy does, I put up with till 2 days ago then moved out I am now going through the whole thing alone with my mum, so think about it and prepare yourself for that out come, make sure its what you want and dont rely on him, if hes there then good but but prepare yourself to do it alone, it doesnt hurt as much that way, good luck, sorry if it sounded harsh, I no how you feal im deeply in love with the father of my child , and just always remember that if its ment to be it will find a way. Youll make it believe me......

Im with shey. You really have to be prepared for anything that might come along because you were a booty call. You broke up and you were still having sex. And he was with other girls...I think you meant accompanying other girls because altercation means he was arguing with him and other girls. Anyways. Sorry for that. But it looks like hes been using you for sex and because you were emotionally tied, you accepted it. But you should find out if you are pregnant and then let him know. But be prepared for a let down incase. Because he might leave you and say its not his, after all you were just having sex. There is no reationship without trust either.

I know exactly what you are going through. I'm currently in the same situation but me an my ex never got back together. We still are having sex though and he still has a girlfriend or whatever. I know how hurting it can be when you are put in a situation like that especially when you believe you are in love. All I can say is I wish for the best and good luck!!!


~trina~

Yeah, you should definately stop sleeping with him. And if you are pregnant, do you really want to get back together with him? It seems to me that you and the baby (if you are pregnant) would be better off with you as the full time mother, and him as the father, but only a friend to you. You don't want to take the relationship further and have him end up cheating on you, or leaving you and the baby later on in life. Just don't do anything drastic. If you turn out to be pregnant it is not just your life anymore. You will be responsible for another life.