Why would you even stay with someone who treats you bad I guess is my question. If you havent been with him that long and he already talks to you like that, dump him and find a different boyfriend. You're only 19. Dont stay in any relationship that is unhealthy, especially at your age. He obviously thinks he's doing nothing wrong, so I doubt he will change.

Your choice is either live with it, or get rid of "it".....

Good luck.

Hawn

Hawn is right, you havent even been with him very long and hes already like this. Before you break up with him look at it from his point of view as well... Always consider every aspect if you dont want to get rid of this guy. Make sure that he is in the relationship for all the same reasons as you... Come out and ask him sometime when you talking, why does he want to be with you too? Try to get him to speak up and tell you what he wants out of the relationship. You might find then that you are wasting your time... Or maybe this is something you just want to work on. Much luck, sarah

Yeah if hes acting like this now, its only going to get worse. And hes not willing to communicate on it. You should leave and keep looking. There are many guys out there and by the way this one is acting you surely dont need him. Or you can let him know he needs to change his attitude or show him the door.

All of the girls are right, things are only going to get worst. I was in an abusive relationship and that is exactly how things started. I wasnt allowed to have my own opinion on things(and im a very independent person) yet he seemed to get under my skin and rip everything apart. This has nothing to do with age, but everything to do with respect. If he doesnt respect you now, why would he later? This guy sounds like a real loser who needs to pull people down with him in his own misery. Get out now before its too late, if you continue seeing him it'll just get harder and harder to leave. Trust me, I was with my ex for only 2 months, and its almost a year later and I still cry at night thinking about what he did to me. Please leave this "boy", he doesnt deserve you. Dont settle for less then you know you deserve. I truly hope you can find the strength to leave him and find a real man.
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-vanessa

You know what jojoann.........How long has it been since you have been with him? If you keep telling him how you feel and he is convienced you are the wrong one.....It might not work, but if both of you try, I mean really really try together to make it work out then you guys must be in love. Jojoann.....Things change meaning he could change if he really wanted to, but somethings never change. Dont waste your time on something that is going to blow up later. Dont be a prisoner of his love. If you chose to stay, then things can be really hard for you later with him if anything happens. Save yourself the heartache.......If I could go back to save my heartache......Believe me I would have!

Jojoann, please get away from him now before he does something to you. He is not worth the trouble. You need to find someone who treats you like you should be treated and not a child. It is not the age difference. He just sounds like he a big loser. Please for your sake, get away now.

GET AWAY BEFORE HE HURTS YOU , god u r a stupid cow

Does trolling work, sweetiebabi, when you're responding to a five year old post?