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someday_someday
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2005
Posts: 4
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18 Year Old Virgin
Posted: 01-29-05 08:46am
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Hi! I'm 18 and have been going out with
my boyfriend for 3 months. I am still a
virgin and we have decided it's coming up
to the right time to have sex.
Do any of you experienced ones in this
area have any pointers to make things more
comfortable? Any tips would be great!
Thanks!
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1509
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Posted: 01-29-05 08:54am
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Wait until your married!!! The best tip
I can give. Unless you guys are that
serious that you are talking/planning on
getting married. You've waited this long
and you will never regret waiting for your
soul mate.
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Tamadrummer
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2004
Posts: 710
Location: Zephyrhills,Fl
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Posted: 01-29-05 12:43pm
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+1
i could not agree more! I am a man but I
know that if you have waited this long,
dont give up just because society expects
you to.
Wait and you will have no regrets, dont
wait and you will have many if your actual
mate does wait for you and you didn't wait
for them.
Good luck and be careful! :)
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004
Posts: 1103
Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 01-29-05 13:01pm
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Listen to your heart.Not your body!If you
feel this young man is worthy of the gift
of your virginity,then go ahead.If you do
not feel 100% that he is the one-don't
have sex with him.I was very young when I
first had sex,but even so,i was one of the
last ones in my group to have sex.I met
some guy at a party and decided he was
going to be my first.I never told him I
was a virgin and never saw him again.I
regret not waiting until I had a special
person to share that with.I do not regret
not waiting until I was married,but I wish
I had been a little more selective about
my first time.Before you all get all over
me about safe sex and disease,this was in
the late 70's,before hiv and herpes.They
were different times and I would never do
something like that now!!I am happily
married and have an awesome sex life.I
feel for myself,that wating until marriage
would not have been the right thing for
me,but everyone needs to choose for
themselves.Making love with the right
person is a beautiful thing,but choosing
to do so carries a responsibility.If you
do decide to become physical,make sure you
have condoms and a back-up method-you do
not want to get pregnant or take risks
with your life.Best to you.
Patty
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
Posts: 12
Location: NEW JERSEY
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U Go Girl
Posted: 02-03-05 09:17am
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I think it is great u r still a virgin
if I knew then what I know now I probally
would still be a virgin.........
Althought I cant take back the hands of
time........
Just wait til u knopw in my heart this is
the one person u wanna be w/ long term til
eternity.... Trust me wait til ur ready
and feel like he's the one..........
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SoFreshNsoJade
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Posts: 24
Location: Texas
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Posted: 02-03-05 23:48pm
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I was in the same position, same age but
it was over 4 months before we did. It
kinda of just happened, we were both
really nervous/shy and it was akward, but
it only gets better.
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zomby_grl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005
Posts: 20
Location: west virginia
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Posted: 02-10-05 07:21am
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Stay a virgin till u are married. He
could use u then leave u just like that.
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Missy21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2005
Posts: 15
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Posted: 02-14-05 01:19am
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I was in the same position too. I waited
until I was 18. If it feels right, then
go for it. Just go slow, lots of
foreplay, talk throughout, tell him if
anything hurts...And try to enjoy it.
You'll only have your first time once, to
make it memorable :)
court
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paranoia
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Feb 2005
Posts: 2
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Posted: 02-14-05 01:43am
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Do it with someone who has already said "i
love you," at least. Someone you love and
would love to be with forever. Also,
remember that the first time hurts. Don't
expect ecstacy the first few times.
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angela green
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: Valdosta
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Posted: 03-01-05 19:42pm
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I was 15 when I lost my virginity, I am 19
now and I wish I was still a virgin, but
im not.
So... Where a condom!!!(you never know)
tell him to go slow!!
Try to relax and focus on it feeling good
not bad!!
Make sure it is on a bed and romantic not
on the floor of a trailer with 3 other
friends in the room sleeping!!!
The last comment is very important!!
Angela... Good luck.... Enjoy!!!
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dominique
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2003
Posts: 83
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Posted: 03-15-05 12:18pm
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I agree. Your first time is something
very special. Please, please make sure
the guy is worth it. I am so glad I
waited for that special someone.
Secondly, if you do decide that it is the
right time for both of you make sure
you've talked it over and be sure of your
birth control plan. If you're confident
in your birth control plan then that's one
less thing to be nervous about. Make the
best decision and good luck.
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sunshinedust1805
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Mar 2005
Posts: 22
Location: Colorado
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Don't Worry
Posted: 03-22-05 13:22pm
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Im 18 too, but not a virgin. If you have
decided to have sex make sure it's what
you want not want he wants. To make
things more comfortable I would say be
yourself....Don't worry about him seeing
you naked for the first time, just love it
cause you have this time together. The
best part of sex is really after
sex.....It is so fun to lay naked and
cuddle and talk. Always use a condom.
It'll hurt, but tell him to go slow. Just
be yourself remember that.
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