Wait until your married!!! The best tip I can give. Unless you guys are that serious that you are talking/planning on getting married. You've waited this long and you will never regret waiting for your soul mate.

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i could not agree more! I am a man but I know that if you have waited this long, dont give up just because society expects you to.

Wait and you will have no regrets, dont wait and you will have many if your actual mate does wait for you and you didn't wait for them.

Good luck and be careful! :)

Listen to your heart.Not your body!If you feel this young man is worthy of the gift of your virginity,then go ahead.If you do not feel 100% that he is the one-don't have sex with him.I was very young when I first had sex,but even so,i was one of the last ones in my group to have sex.I met some guy at a party and decided he was going to be my first.I never told him I was a virgin and never saw him again.I regret not waiting until I had a special person to share that with.I do not regret not waiting until I was married,but I wish I had been a little more selective about my first time.Before you all get all over me about safe sex and disease,this was in the late 70's,before hiv and herpes.They were different times and I would never do something like that now!!I am happily married and have an awesome sex life.I feel for myself,that wating until marriage would not have been the right thing for me,but everyone needs to choose for themselves.Making love with the right person is a beautiful thing,but choosing to do so carries a responsibility.If you do decide to become physical,make sure you have condoms and a back-up method-you do not want to get pregnant or take risks with your life.Best to you.
Patty

I think it is great u r still a virgin

if I knew then what I know now I probally would still be a virgin.........

Althought I cant take back the hands of time........

Just wait til u knopw in my heart this is the one person u wanna be w/ long term til eternity.... Trust me wait til ur ready and feel like he's the one..........

I was in the same position, same age but it was over 4 months before we did. It kinda of just happened, we were both really nervous/shy and it was akward, but it only gets better.

Stay a virgin till u are married. He could use u then leave u just like that.

I was in the same position too. I waited until I was 18. If it feels right, then go for it. Just go slow, lots of foreplay, talk throughout, tell him if anything hurts...And try to enjoy it. You'll only have your first time once, to make it memorable :)

court

Do it with someone who has already said "i love you," at least. Someone you love and would love to be with forever. Also, remember that the first time hurts. Don't expect ecstacy the first few times.

I was 15 when I lost my virginity, I am 19 now and I wish I was still a virgin, but im not.

So... Where a condom!!!(you never know)
tell him to go slow!!
Try to relax and focus on it feeling good not bad!!
Make sure it is on a bed and romantic not on the floor of a trailer with 3 other friends in the room sleeping!!!
The last comment is very important!!
Angela... Good luck.... Enjoy!!!

I agree. Your first time is something very special. Please, please make sure the guy is worth it. I am so glad I waited for that special someone. Secondly, if you do decide that it is the right time for both of you make sure you've talked it over and be sure of your birth control plan. If you're confident in your birth control plan then that's one less thing to be nervous about. Make the best decision and good luck.

Im 18 too, but not a virgin. If you have decided to have sex make sure it's what you want not want he wants. To make things more comfortable I would say be yourself....Don't worry about him seeing you naked for the first time, just love it cause you have this time together. The best part of sex is really after sex.....It is so fun to lay naked and cuddle and talk. Always use a condom. It'll hurt, but tell him to go slow. Just be yourself remember that.