Embarassing Sex Dilemma ? Posted: 01-29-05 04:58am
When I first met him, my baby's daddy
wasn't into sex at all..He said he had sex
with 2 girls before me, and none of them
were able to make him cum..Then when we
started having sex, he came pretty much
everytime..Well anyways now, for like the
past 2/3 weeks..Everytime we have sex I
can't seem to make him cum anymore. It's
really bringing me down and making me sad
cuz now I feel like i'm not good enough,
i'm just like the other girls..I wanna be
different, I wanna make him feel good.
Anyways I guess my question is..Has this
happened to any of you before? Does
anyone have any ideas on what I could do?
Idk I feel dumb posting this, but this is
totally bumming me out :(
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 01-29-05 08:36am
I've been in the same situation... Except
i've been in your boyfriend's shoes.
Where my ex was no longer able to get me
going like she used to.
It's not something you're doing, it's him.
He's getting bored, his mind isn't really
where the action is. You can't do the
same things over and over and over and
over again and expect it to be just as
intense as the first time.
Change it up... New locations, being more
dominating, dressing more sexually,
videotaping yourselves, giving him a
complete strip tease... But don't allow
him to touch himself. Handcuffs,
blindfolds, and oils, feathers, ice cubes,
candle wax... You know, the usual things.
Just change it up a little bit.
The other things you have to consider is
that he's just not as sexual has he used
to be for one reason or another. Could
be things stressing him out, he could be
ejaculating at an earlier time.. (i.E.
Masturbating)... Etc.
