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Q: Embarassing Sex Dilemma Question..

asked by: rachrach on January 29th, 2005

Experienced User

When I first met him, my baby's daddy wasn't into sex at all..He said he had sex with 2 girls before me, and none of them were able to make him cum..Then when we started having sex, he came pretty much everytime..Well anyways now, for like the past 2/3 weeks..Everytime we have sex I can't seem to make him cum anymore. It's really bringing me down and making me sad cuz now I feel like i'm not good enough, i'm just like the other girls..I wanna be different, I wanna make him feel good.
Anyways I guess my question is..Has this happened to any of you before? Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do? Idk I feel dumb posting this, but this is totally bumming me out :(

Replies(12)

mommaashley

replied on January 29th, 2005

Experienced User

Maybe there is something wrong with him. My guy cums all the time and so I thought everyone did. Sorry I can't help much other than maybe there is something wrong with him.

l2at24

replied on January 29th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I just read in another post that people, men or women, who masturbate often get used to the feeling of masterbation. Then they have trouble climaxing during sex. Idk, just a possibility. You shouldn't feel like it has anything to do with you. Think about all the women that never have an orgasm during sex and they still love their men more than anything. Lol

justacanadiangirl

replied on January 30th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

l2at24 wrote:

i just read in another post that people, men or women, who masturbate often get used to the feeling of masterbation. Then they have trouble climaxing during sex. Idk, just a possibility. You shouldn't feel like it has anything to do with you. Think about all the women that never have an orgasm during sex and they still love their men more than anything. Lol

that was the problem with my last bf I think. Cuz he was ok for the first bit, but after that it was like he couldn't get off unless he did it himself. Really sucks, I gotta tell ya.

Clambake

replied on January 30th, 2005

New User

It is a problem with him and I seriously doubt it has anything to do with his masterbation habits.

MissChicopea

replied on January 31st, 2005

New User

It may very well be a mental block as well. My husband had never been able to ejaculate via sex before me. In fact the first 5 or so times that we had sex he wasn't able to either. We talked it out and we figured out that since he wasn't able to the first few times with other women, it became a sort of performance anxiety.

Also, there is the fear in some men of getting their partner pregnant.

Perhaps you two need to sit down and talk it out. He may have a lot on his mind.

Kia

replied on January 31st, 2005

Supporter

My fella has always had a low sex drive.
It doesn't mean he doesn't love me and we show affection - kissing and cuddling and stuff, he just doesn't demand sex ever and I have to seduce him when I want it - hey it keeps it fun and you don't get to take it for granted.

When we do have sex he rarely cums without manual stimulation and when he has it suprises both of us lol

the more you guys fixate on not cumming the worse it gets, you just have to relax and enjoy.
Indulge in foreplay, have (safe) sex and then indulge in after play.
I enjoy the sex but it is the fore/after play and stimulation that concludes the big *o*

rachrach

replied on January 31st, 2005

Experienced User

Thanks everyone

Justin_Toronto

replied on February 1st, 2005

Experienced User

Maybe he's bored of the same old same old. Change it up. Get some toys, wear lingerae, seduce him... Surprise him in his sleep.... Try new locations.

Justin

cherriegurl

replied on February 1st, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I agree totally with kia, try rubbing him before or maybe giving him a little bit of head, and also try lots of positions! If u need help figuring out some pm me and ill help u out!

MommyMichelle

replied on November 12th, 2005

New User

How Does It Feel...asap

I am just wondering how does it feel when a woman climaxes. First of all is climaxing the same as an orgasm. If your answer is no then I thought so. So how does it feel is it suppose to hurt? I have had an orgasm before during foreplay but I have been asked if I had ever "nut" before I want to know what is that and how does it feel?

michelle1981

replied on November 12th, 2005

Supporter

justin_toronto wrote:

maybe he's bored of the same old same old. Change it up. Get some toys, wear lingerae, seduce him... Surprise him in his sleep.... Try new locations.

Justin

the "surprise him in his sleep" is a really good idea.. My hubby loves that :d

sibley_b

replied on November 12th, 2005

New User

Re: How Does It Feel...asap

mommymichelle wrote:

i am just wondering how does it feel when a woman climaxes. First of all is climaxing the same as an orgasm. If your answer is no then I thought so. So how does it feel is it suppose to hurt? I have had an orgasm before during foreplay but I have been asked if I had ever "nut" before I want to know what is that and how does it feel?

there is a difference! I can't explain it here though...Lol! When you climax normally it is just contractions of the vagina, that you can't control! What someone asked you about the "nut", they were talking about a g-spot orgasm, where fluid is released from the body. Go to this site and in the top left corner click on sexual info, she has a long list of topics! Make sure you read the difference between the female and g-spot orgasm. Good luck

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