Hello Livelong.
I had surgery for my Enlarged Postate.
It was called a TURP Surgery, I watched it being caried out on my own TV set that was set up on my left side, Their was no pain what so ever.Before the Opp I had the same problems as you, I also had medication that was stopped the day I had the Opp, The Medication did give me problems,
I was in Hospital for 2 days,I do not now have any Urination Difficulty of any type, My biggest problem is sex. But I am working on that lol.
Bobmc