Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Philadelphia
Relationship Issue Posted: 01-27-05 15:41pm
Hey, im 20 yrs old and I love this guy and
he is 20 too. But he has lupus and I do
know this for sure that he has feelings
for me too, but the things which is
keeping him away from getting into
relationship is the fact that he has lupus
sle. And he thinks I dont know he has
sle. I am willing to still be with him,
but I think he has the fear that
relationships and marriges dont work very
well in lupus, and I wanna tell him about
the fact that those people who get
dignosed with lupus during their
relationship or marrige were not mentally
prepared of what was coming ahead for
them, like they were not mentally prepared
for it. And wanna show him the difference
between their and our situation; in our
situation im metally prepared and am
willing to work out things with him and
its not that he is resently diagnosed with
it and dont know how to balance his
situation or even that he is having hard
time makin me understand his whole
situation. I wanna have him in my life
soo bad that I found out myself that he
actually has sle and I did study bout it.
I know it can make life tough, but it
depends on how we plan to deal with
obstacle and then work evevrything with
that plan. And its pretty common sense
that when we are mentally and physically
healthy how can problems occur. I have
not really talked all this to him but am
planning to talk as soon as I am ready.
Can someone help me with this
situation???????? :(
