Porn is an addiction, what a load of crap. Driving cars is also addictive I guess. Is masturbation addictive, tomz? Is think about sex, addictive. Is thinking about sex with other people wrong? Are sexual day dreams, addictive and wrong? I would argue they are natural, and it is a judaeo-christian up brining that has brainwashed us into thinking all the above is wrong.
There is nothing wrong with porn, do not listen to anyone who tells you different. Such people are not using reason, and are motivated by brainwashing.
People will often cite porn as the cause of a break up or a cheating partner. That is just bs. In the above case given by tomz, I would say it is his sister's conservative view of sex vs her husband's liberal view of sex that cause the problem. Porn was not the root cause. To say such is just emotional, irrational, and suspect.
Looking at things logically will tell you that tom's example of why porn is bad, is mis-leading. Funny though tom hates porn, and so does his sister. Could there be some form of brainwashing there. I suspect so.
Tom, I argue you comments are tainted and not valid.
Munchkin
your man crossed the line in trying to pick up girls off the net for sex. That is the same as going to a bar. You should back out now, he is not taking you seriously.
Lastly, you should not feel ugly. I can find something beautiful in everyone, and I am sure many others can as well. If he just looked at porn, there would not be a problem. But, he also has a cheating nature, and there is your problem.
Porn is not the problem, keep you head straight. Your man has a tendency to cheat. Keep your eyes open to that.
