Me and my girl are pretty much into all sorts of sex...I especially love doggy style and while having sex that way, I like to stick my finger in her anus. She however doesn't like it. She allows me to do it but does not get any pleasure out of it at all. If she were to tell me, while we are screwing, in a nasty way, to put it (penis) in her anus...I would probably get so excited i'd nut b4 I could put it in...So in the heat of making love/screwing, just tell him what you want and how you want it...Probably more exciting for him if you demand it.

My man love it!!
I never stick my finger in all the way but play around in the opening...He goes crazy.
Once I put in the vibe a little and he orgazimed just from the vibrations.

Thanks for the suggestions. But can anyone tell me how to approach it. How do I do it, do I just do it or should I ask him first. Should I give him oral sex and then touch his anus what to do, what to do.

I am in the same boat. The last relationship I was in, the guy loved anal sex, licking, dildos, viberators. We both did. My now husband, however, does not. I didn't know how to apprach him either, so I said it jokingly. He thought it was disgusting. I have literally begged him, with no avail. He love to lick my butt, and finger it and so forth. I'm not sure if he realizes how much i'd like to do the same to him. I am only 20. I don't want to live with these fantasies of what I want to do to him forever. I guess what I am trying to say is, don't just do it, because he truly may feel offended. Maybe telling him in the heat of the moment would be an idea. But. What if he's about to get off, and you are to, and you stick your finger back there and he gets grossed out? That is what i'm afraid of.


Marissa

I am, as well in the same boat as the other girls. My boyfriend and I are very open, but I think they are afraid of themselves being penitrated. I am still working on that, but I learned that by starting off slow may be the trick!-we'll see. Maybe next time when you are going down on him, keep licking lower and lower and see what happens, that's what I did and he loved it. He's still a little freaked out with me sticking my finger in, and definately wouldn't let me use a dildo just yet, but i'm working on it. Good luck and let us know if you find any tricks :d

My boyfriend now is the first one to lick my butt. I really enjoyed it. I wanted to see if he would like it. There is a vein or tube or something that is just below the sack, between the sack and the butt hole. One day while you are 69ing (its just easier this way), start to fondle the balls with your tounge and gently suck. Then, go lower and lower. Lick that vein thing. He will definitely enjoy that and his body will immediately respond to your touch. Keep this up for a while, and then go futher south. See how he reacts. If he acts like he likes it, but says he doesn't, tell him that you know how his body responed and that he did enjoy it. If he doesn't seem to like it, then say you did it on an accident.
But, if he does...After a few times of you doing this, get it really wet one day. Grab his cheeks while he is on top of you one day, and begin to move inward until you have what you want. This is how I did it to my boyfriend. He likes it every now and then, but he thinks that it means that he is gay, so he won't admit it, but he lets me do it and I love his response.

Hey I have had a girl to that to me once during the heat of the pation it felt good but she would not let me go further with her so she never got more then a half inch in me. How ever I am inbaresed by because I am guy and well hell its somthing we are not that comfortible with. My wife joked with me about it but she said she was kidding now reading this maybe she was not joking. We are very open to new things and I belive fair is fair. The only reason why I would let her is cause if she wanted it and there is a presure point there to. You might try touching between his anus and his sack because there is a presure point there and you might be able to go further after that let me jamie

When I masterbuate, I like to put my finger inside my anus and stimulate my g-spot. It's a hell of an orgasm. I cannot find a girl that will help me out in this department. Any guys having any doubts should try it at least once, especially if they have a wife or girlfriend willing to give it a run.

well my girlfriend just started massaging my rectum and after a momet she just entered her finger and we were off from there. Asking may never get you there. Just do it, if he likes it or not he will let you know

My wife and I have been married happily for many years, and have both benefited from taking care of each other's needs. I, like you, am VERY erotically stimulated by her anus and butt, and wish she were more attentive to mine. I keep my anus and rectum EXTREMELY clean and lubricated (it is easy to get in the habit of keeping them clean!), and she will actually use her finger on me if I ask, but she never suggests it herself. I want her to penetrate my anus every time we have sex, and wish she could develop the desire for me in that way. But alas, these things can take time. To have a woman who is not only willing, but WANTS to satisfy her man in such a way is a real blessing, and I imagine he will come to his senses and see it that way before too long. Maybe you can show him information about the health benefits of prostate massage? If it is not too unpleasurable to you, maybe help him with a cleanout session in the shower? I have no attraction to men, but my wife objects to using any object that reminds her of a penis, as it conjurs up doubts in her mind about my masculinity and leaning towards being gay (NOT an option for me, and my wife is gorgeous, I just want HER to do it to me). Any of you women out there should take heed and partake of open discussion about this. Take it from me, having a clean anus and rectum and enjoying sexual stimulation there does not make you gay. And, from what I've read, wives can really help their husbands' health outlook by being open minded to massaging their husbands' prostate glands via the rectum. I hope you two are blessed by growing open-mindedness and love!

i've messed around with my boyfriend's area a few times & just recently i was going down & him & just happened to lick a little lower & a little lower.. & he loved it. He realized that i was getting really turned on by his responses so i think that was his motivation! i think it's really erotic & i'm a bit of a freak in the bed so i love it. i've got maybe 1/2 inch in with him before but i truly doubt it will go any further. some heterosexual men think that this act downs their masculinity but - i'm telling you - it truly is a turn-on for me & i hope he will loosen up [no pun intended] a little more in the future & be more open to it.

This is a REALLY old topic!

well someone brought it back by posting about it so i figured i'd add to it. besides, when you post on an old topic it allows for users to actually see it in the list of latest topics.. so naturally, people will read these old topics that have been recently commented on. i don't see why it's hurting anything..

a nice prostate massage goes a long way... lol.. especially since most males can multiple O from it..

Having a tongue down there is the most guaranteed way of picking up whatever std's someone has, esp when it comes to hep C. To get a finger in there, you have to do the combo move during oral; it requires both hands. My chick does it all the time. Just make sure your nails are trimmed; NO sharp edges! Also, make sure you don't have any hang-nails or minor cuts on whichever finger you'll use; you could end up with a septicemia where you get a crazy fever, chills, your arm swells up, becomes very painful, and you'll be stuck in a hospital bed receiving megadoses of anti-bacterial/anti-viral products by intravenous drip. Word to the ladies: just because a sexual technique is described in Cosmopolitan magazine, doesn't mean EVERY guy out there likes it or that you have to pressure your man into doing it or that your relationship is any less meaningful because you haven't tried it already. Take it easy! Sheesh!

As far as catching anything, you can simply use a dental dam (like a condom, but flat, usually used by lesbians for safe sex) for the oral stimulation, and then use a condom around your finger for the physical internal deep stimulation. There is a way to avoid contact, yay condom!

i have tried two times to do anal with my g/f and both times my penis was covered with caca,is there any way to overcome this draw back of anal sex?

i have tried two times to do anal with my g/f and both times my penis was covered with caca,is there any way to overcome this draw back of anal sex?

shhooot. even if you massage his area between his anal and his pee pee, he will go crazy. but i love fingering guys a--holes....they all go crazy and almost cum so i guess i'm doing good, but if u dont wanna penetrate guys massage that area between there anel and their balls. they'll go crazy....happy sex everyone! : )