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Seagreen Eyed Girl
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After Anal Sex
Posted: 10-29-03 18:14pm
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I just had anal sex for the first time the
other night with my boyfriend. I really
enjoyed it and it didn't hurt at all.
After we were done I went to the restroom
to see it his ejaculate would come out but
it didn't. I didn't need to have a bowel
movement so I didn't push. I wiped my
anus to get the liquid off and noticed I
was bleeding. Not a whole lot, though.
I just ignored it and went to bed.
That next morning I was still bleeding a
little. Then that afternoon I had a
bowel movement. After it came out,
ohhhhh, was the pain bad. It felt as if
there were ants in my rectum biting me.
That lasted about 2 minutes or so. It
was still hurting when I sat down too. I
am no longer bleeding and it no longer
stings when I have to go to the restroom.
My question is since I am not bleeding
anymore should I still worry about it, and
why did it sting so bad when I had the
bowel movement?
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saraludlum
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Posted: 10-29-03 18:54pm
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I don't know the technicalities of this,
but I do know that you have nothing to
worry about-it happens to all of us.
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-03-03 14:39pm
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Its gonna happen when things are supposed
to come out, and it gets pushed in. So
bleeding is bound to happend. I
personally hate doing it like that but hey
everyone is different.
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dominique
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Posted: 11-14-04 17:01pm
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I've heard that if you try to go to the
bathroom before hand that won't happen. I
don't know if it actually works but it's
probably worth a shot!
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PattyV
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Posted: 11-14-04 19:21pm
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During anal sex,your honey probably
thrusted a bit too agressively and caused
some internal bruising or maybe a little
tear.Make sure he wears a condom when you
do this again(if you do).Patty
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BeckLyn
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Posted: 11-15-04 10:22am
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My guess is tears from too little lube.
Maybe u have hemroids and don't know it,
they bleed when broken open.... I've
never bled from anal.... Sorry.
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-15-04 12:27pm
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I had it last night and I did not bleed at
all my had a bowl movement and I think
some might have got on his penis (ewww
sorry) no my fault but he went slow and I
like it becuz it he didnt try 2 hurt me
soo sweet lol but my anus is swollen and
it hurts when I walk ( so I walk funny )
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mommax3
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Posted: 11-15-04 13:06pm
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Yeah, probably had some slight tearing,
hence the bleeding and then when you did
have a bm it aggitated it because bm is
afterall, waste (ew) I wouldn;t be worried
though
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Tubby
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Posted: 11-16-04 00:51am
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Either threaten your man with a wee-wee
hacking if he doesn't be more careful next
time, or buy som wd-40 for his wee-wee so
you have more lubrication next time.
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PosrscheLvr
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Posted: 11-19-04 01:14am
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Well info to know, the anus is not meant
to expand and accomdate a penis like the
vagina is. When you shove something
larger than normal into something not
usually meant for it. Tearing can occur.
It's not that big of a deal unless it's a
lot of blood. Think of small cuts on your
hands, it's just like that but in your
ass.
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zoomer815
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Posted: 11-19-04 15:11pm
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I can't answer from man or womans
perspecitve on this because i've never
been allowed to even try. Lol!! 
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 11-22-04 18:12pm
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| zoomer815
wrote: | | i can't answer from man or
womans perspecitve on this because i've
never been allowed to even try. Lol!!
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I second that but I dont want to try..
Yes call me chicken
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-22-04 19:49pm
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I like anal sex lol as long as the guy
goes slow its all good
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scaredestneedhelp
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O God I Have to Use the Bathroom So Bad
Posted: 10-30-05 12:07pm
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Yesterday I had anal sex and I am scared
to use the bathroom. After reading her
story I am so scared. I have two cuts.
But they are on the outside. I don't know
about the inside. I was constipated a
couple of days before and my father said I
probably had hemorroids(sp?). Please give
me a response asap...I am going to ....
On myself! :x
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scaredestneedhelp
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Re: O God I Have to Use the Bathroom So Bad
Posted: 10-30-05 15:38pm
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| scaredestneedhelp
wrote: | | yesterday I had anal sex and
I am scared to use the bathroom. After
reading her story I am so scared. I have
two cuts. But they are on the outside.
I don't know about the inside. I was
constipated a couple of days before and my
father said I probably had
hemorroids(sp?). Please give me a
response asap...I am going to .... On
myself! :x |
well...Um I used the bathroom and it went
better than expected. Now my butt
hurts...Just a little bit. I had likee
two wet tissues and some more ready. I
had this experience before but not with
anal sex...Its just hand weren't suppose
to be where they were. After using the
bathroom I hurried up and took a bath.
Just before that I drank a lot of water so
the extrication would just spill out. I
didn't know so much would come out. I
have a doctors appointment two days from
now. I do not know what to say. Plus my
father may be in the room. Should I
explain to the doctor? For all those
young ones like me and older do not try
anything until you are sure that you are
ready for the consequenses! If you
don't...Expect pain or tell your partner
to listen to you and take it slow,
especially for anal penetration...Well i'm
out.
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scaredestneedhelp
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Please Help!
Posted: 10-31-05 18:55pm
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Another question...How do you heal anal
wounds quickly?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-31-05 23:09pm
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Okay well first off... The only problem I
had with defecating after anal sex was
that my ass muscles were like...
Unresponsive, lol. So the "pushing" was
more from higher up instead of low like it
normally is, but I did push out the semen.
I had no pain really, and no bleeding.
It felt odd, but that's all.
To help heal, I would suggest some
petroleum jelly maybe (but don't use a
condom, petroleum jelly is oil-based and
it'll dissolve that condom like fast!) or
perhaps a hemmeroid cream. How the heck
did your father diagnose you with
hemmroids? I've been constipated before,
but that doesn't mean I have hemmeroids!
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scaredestneedhelp
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Posted: 11-01-05 19:05pm
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| eiri
wrote: | okay well first off... The
only problem I had with defecating after
anal sex was that my ass muscles were
like... Unresponsive, lol. So the
"pushing" was more from higher up instead
of low like it normally is, but I did push
out the semen. I had no pain really, and
no bleeding. It felt odd, but that's
all.
To help heal, I would suggest some
petroleum jelly maybe (but don't use a
condom, petroleum jelly is oil-based and
it'll dissolve that condom like fast!) or
perhaps a hemmeroid cream. How the heck
did your father diagnose you with
hemmroids? I've been constipated before,
but that doesn't mean I have
hemmeroids! |
bcuz I pushed too hard and I was like my
butt feels weird so he said...U might have
hemmoriods...I didnt think so but I took
the medicine and after I used it, the
booty felt a lil wierd and thanx for the
healing tip
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-02-05 00:01am
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Your but would hurt if you had hemmroids,
and itch too.
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