I found out today that I am not pregnant.
I started my period and I have really bad
cramps. I haven't felt this way sents I
was a 11 years old. That is how old I
was when I first started my period. I
went to do the doctor then and they told
my mom that I was just ovualting (hoped I
spelled that right) and gave me some pain
pills. But after that I haven't hurt
that bad until now. I am alittle upset
that I ain't pregnant. A little scared
that something is wrong that is stopping
me from getting pregnant. See one of my
cousin had or has endometriosis and if I
remember right the doctor's told her that
it runs in the family. See my periods has
never been normal like her wasn't. There
was this one time that I went two monthes
without a period. So I guess my question
is is it possible that I could have
endometriosis and is missed period or
painful cramps symptoms of the
endometriosis.
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ko
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2004 Posts: 137 Location: Waterloo
Posted: 01-27-05 15:12pm
I have a friend that had severe
endimetriosis. Not to scare you but she
had 3 misscarriages before she had her
first child. A wonderful baby boy who is
perfectly healthy. A year and a half
later she gave birth to a girl who is
healthy too. Her doctor told her that
she had a 20 percent chance if that to get
pregnant and if so would probably not
carry to term. She was late with both
children. She was put on bed rest at 5
months with both. Her periods were all
over the place as well.
What I am trying to say is dont let it
stress you out or upset you. Just have
fun ttc and it will happen. My husband
had been ttc for 6 months now and are
still not pregnant. I get a little
frustrated sometimes, epecially when my
period arrives but I just remind myself
that it will happen someday.
Keep your chin up and have fun!!!
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 01-28-05 21:08pm
Thanks for the reply. I am trying really
hard not to let the stress get to me. But
it does and right now I have more stress
then that. And it is really effect me
alot. I just need some time to relax. I
have decided try not to worry so much
about getting pregnant. So far it has
worked but I guess that might be because
being on my period. One thing that stress
me out about not being pregnant is the
advertisement on tv about hpt. And like
when you go to a restuartant and you see a
newborn and you wished you had a baby.
Then I get a little down in the dumps.
But it isn't really so bad. I know that
it we will have a baby one day. Even if
we don't conceive a baby then we are going
to try to abopt. But we are going to give
it at least a year or two.
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ko
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2004 Posts: 137 Location: Waterloo
Posted: 01-29-05 19:15pm
Glad that I helped you feel abit better
about it all. The thing that is
frustrating me about not being pregnant
yet is I know that I can get pregnant. I
had a misscarriage about 8 years ago
because of so much stress. The father
and I didnt see eye to eye on the baby
thing and he ended up leaving and I got so
stress that I lost the baby. Maybe for
the best.
I do to get bummed a bit when I am out and
see a baby or when a friend calls and lets
me know that she is pregnant and we have
been trying for almost the same amount of
time. Or if another friend tells me that
their friend got pregnant after two months
of trying. I just got to keep reminding
myself that I will happen when it happens
and to live my life until then.
Hope everything goes well with you.
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 01-29-05 23:11pm
Don't know if I said this before but I
don't know if I can get pregnant. I
thought I was at one time but it turned
out that I wasn't. I got bummed out about
it today. One of my cousins had her baby
today. The one I told you about that had
endimetriosis. And another of my cousins
told me that his girlfriend is pregnant.
So that has me a bummed out. I am trying
to keep my chin up. I am happy for my
cousins even though it doesn't sound like
it.
