Need Some Advice.... Please Posted: 01-24-05 18:17pm
Hey guys. Well im 16 years old and there
is a slight chance I am pregnant. I dont
know what I am looking for to get out of
posting this but I know that I want some
feedback on my post. On the 20th I was
chilling with a few guy friends or what I
thought were guy friends while one my girl
friends went out to do something. We were
all drinking and having a fun time and
nobody assumed anything would happen cuz
we were all friends, right? And plus I
had a boyfriend of almost 8 months that
everyone knew about. Me and this one guy
ended up having sex. I was too drunk to
really know what I was doing. Cuz if I
was sober none of that wold have never
happened, it would have never even been
thought about. The guy started using a
condom but at sometime he decided forget
the condom and it ended up not being a
factor anymore. I didnt know this since I
barely had any sense of what was really
going on. I am now unsure about whether I
am pregnant or not. I know it is too soon
to tell considering this only happened a
few days ago but I guess what im looking
for is some support. The guy said he
doesn't think he nutted in me but he is
for sure that he did on my bed. My last
period ended on the 6th of january and I
shouldn't be expecting another one for
about another 2 weeks. My periods are
usually very regular. Since that awful
day I have been not in the best health. I
was very sore the day after which I bet is
quite normal. I used to eat a lot, my
eating patterns have changed a lot. I eat
maybe 2 meals a day. I suddenly got very
sick 2 days after, on saturday. I am
still sick and it is monday now. I
usually have a strong immune system and I
hardly get sick. I have a sore throat,
stomach pains, a stuffy nose and very
strong tension headaches. I have been so
tired in the past few days. I dont know
what to do.... All of this has stressed
me out. I'm sure all of those signs could
be symptons of stress but then again there
is no way to know for sure right now.
Well thank you for taking the time to read
my long post and please if you took the
time to read it please respond as soon as
possible. God bless everybody and dont
make the same mistake I did. Learn from
it and become stronger.
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 01-24-05 19:16pm
Hello hun,
everyone does stuff in there life that
they regret or wish in some way or the
other that they didnt do it. I sure do...
Im not here to judge you im here for
support. I cant say that you are pregnant
of course as you all ready know it is to
early to tell. But im not saying that you
arent either. Anyone can get pregnant
even just by pre cum. I noticed that you
said you have a botfriend have you told
him what has happened? If it was me I
wouldnt have.Alot of those signs could be
stress it could also be your body
recopeing from the alcohol esp. If you
where that tore up. The only thing I can
say is wait it out and time will tell.
You can also call your doctor and get the
morning after pill as well. Good luck to
you hun and im here if you need to talk
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 01-24-05 19:20pm
Don't know really to tell you. First of
all you shouldn't be drinking in the first
place sents you are only 16. Second yes
there is a chance that you are pregnant.
But it could because you are stress so
much about having sex with another guy.
Have you had sex with you boyfriend (sorry
I know that is personal) I was just
wondering because if you have then there
is a chance that if you are pregnant then
it could be your boyfriend. I have you
told your boyfriend about it yet. Because
it may help you some if you do. I know he
break up with you. But could be sick you
feel so guilty about all of. I hope I
didn't sound judgemental I didn't mean to
sound that way. I hope what I said helps
some.
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fraggle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 01-25-05 13:47pm
I would try not to worry about this too
much. I know its hard because i've been
through a similar situation. We all make
mistakes in life and the only thing you
can do is learn from it and move on and
don't look back. Try not to beat
yourself up about it cause its just a
waste of time. What ever happens just
know that the world is not going to end
and this too shall pass.
If you had sex on the 20th, you should
wait about two weeks to take a pregnancy
test. There are tests now that work a
few days before your supposed to get your
period. Good luck. :d
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fraggle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 01-25-05 13:56pm
I would try not to worry about this too
much. I know its hard because i've been
through a similar situation. We all make
mistakes in life and the only thing you
can do is learn from it and move on and
don't look back. Try not to beat
yourself up about it cause its just a
waste of time. What ever happens just
know that the world is not going to end
and this too shall pass.
If you had sex on the 20th, you should
wait about two weeks to take a pregnancy
test. There are tests now that work a
few days before your supposed to get your
period. Good luck. :d
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bestrada
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 01-25-05 19:31pm
Thank you all for all of your advice and
support. So first of all I would like to
answer some question that you may have. I
was going to do this in the beginning but
I thought they dont care about the little
details. But anyways yes I have told my
boyfriend I have told everyone that needed
to know. I told most of them the night
that it all happened and my boyfriend was
first on the list because I felt so bad I
cant even explain it. I never realized
how much I cared for him until after I
knew I messed up more than anything, I
mean I always knew I cared for him but
never that much. And second no I have
never had sex with my boyfriend before. I
was a virgin before that day and thats the
reason why I am even more stressed. Well
thank you for your time and advice.
