Hey, listen I know exactly what you are going through. I went through the same thing. The only difference, I went back to him. Big big big mistake. I am still with him. I want to leave, but dont know how to. Get a restraining order on him. Does he know that you are pregnant? Do you ahve support from your family? Let me know exactly what you are wanting adviceon?

Why did you split up? I just ask because I am wondering. Did he do something that would deny himself the right to know he had a child? Or is it just indifference between the too of you. Just that down the road your outlook may change and decide to tell you child about their father. Doing so may cause your child to recent you for a very long time. Or say he finds out years later and challanges you to custody out of recentment. My friend just lost here son to her ex-husband. He did it out of spite. He does care to really keep his son. He did it for revenge. She is now completely lost without here child and has turned to drugs and sex for comfort. I have lost her. Think of all the possible future outcomes before you choose. Because your choosing for two now. I hope only the best for you.

Hey I was reading the messages on the board and I am going through something like this-well I been with this guy on and off for 12-years we do have 2 kids together (twins girls). And I found out that he is married to this woman that he told me that she was his sister, but anyways I was dating this guy for about 1 year and some months it was a long distance
relationship I cheated on my boyfriend and we broke-up.
Now my kids father won't leave me alone even though he is married he say's that he is not happy w/ his wife what should I do? :?

Beat feet...Move far away and leave no forwarding

your kids' dad is a liar and a manipulator adulterer, you waiting to see what trip he pulls on their young lives?

Get while the gettin' is good

As of being a fairly decent and intelligent person I would advise you to grab his sack, rip it off, and toss it into the sea if possible. After that, pull a 9 and bust a cap on the hurtbag's ass. Lol your typical case of american assault/m*rder. Now that's funny. :)

Sounds like these guys want their cake and eat it to or realize that they have messed up a good thing, do not worry, they will not change.
Just ignore fa 18 hornet he is a messed up little person that is against americans and likes attention. He should be banned soon.
Good luck
sincerely,
sandy

do you know what a f/a-18 hornet even is? My username is spelt with no spaces. You should have placed a comma before typing 'he is a messed up' and another one before typing 'little person...'. Plus, claiming I like attention does not matter. It's far from the truth and overrated. Your are medged. Hahahahaha!! What a burn. Lol

hey my ex-husband will not stop causing problems for my new family. he called my daughter's school and told them lies that caused Socal Services to visit our home for a month. he calls my daughter on a phone that he provied her trying to convence her to come live with him when she doesn't want to. when he doesn't get the answers he wants from me he calls my sisters. while he and i were married he was abusive and controling.

you need to go to the police hun and tell them he is harassing you and your daughter and they should do something about it...jenny

Go and get a restraining order on him and his friends. Tell his girk friend some things that are bad about him

the restraining order i agree with but telling his girlfriend bad things about him is just stooping down to his level and is not necessary....Jenny