I've seen this alot as of late, being posted here and as for not only experiencing the problem myself, I have a solution too.


Having a problem staying hard where you've never had this problem before? No, it does not mean you are impotent, and it doesn't mean you can't get hard! It doesn't mean your penis is broken...And...

It doesn't mean you need viagra, or these expensive pills that companies are trying to shove off on you.


Before consulting a doctor, you have to consider that this problem might simply be a "mental" thing. Yes, I know myself how embarrassing it is to go to a doctor and say "help! I can't get an erection!"

alot of times, the reasoning behind not being able to stay hard, is because you're nervous. Another reason is because you're thinking too much about making your penis hard, or keeping it hard...And even thinking too much about pleasing your partner.


...When you go off into kissing your girlfriend, or lover....Your mind is in a different world. You become erect for a long time because you aren't concentrating on your penis being hard. Even when you lay naked with each other and make out...Your penis is hard because you aren't thinking about it.


And then finally when the time comes to start having sex with the woman, you go limp. Why? Because it's no longer as natural and non-chalant as it was when you were making out with the woman.


You have to concentrate on the "feeling". How does her mouth feel when she's giving you oral? How does her vagina feel when you're inside of her?


You have to stop concentrating on what makes you hard, and what keeps you hard.....


...And you have to start "using" the woman. It sounds crude, but hear me out. You have to move your hips...Or even move her hips the way you want to move them. It doesn't make you a selfish lover, because more often then not...Using a woman to get yourself off actually satisfies the woman.


My own girlfriend in fact, has an orgasm when "i" cum...Because she says she loves the fact i'm getting pleasure from her.


Another technique is to preform oral on your lover.......Go ahead and get her off. Maybe once, or even twice whether it's with your finger, your mouth...Or with your penis.


Once you've gotten her off...You shouldn't need to worry about pleasing her anymore. That's when you move her body to suit your needs...And more often then not...Your partner will be willing to let you move her this way, and that...To satisfy yourself!


Stop worrying so much about pleasing her...Until you've gotten into the routine of this.


And don't worry, there will be alot of times that this will happen down the road. Even "i" experience a problem getting hard with my lover from time to time. But she understands my problem. And she still loves me, despite it.


If you have any questions, feel free to reply to this topic and ask me....I'll be happy to help you out to the best of my ability.