If you dont want too have sex, then dont have sex.

With me it was the oppisite, my b.F didnt want to go "poking the baby".

It is safe to have sex while your pregnant, your cervix is closed.
Id say enjoy it while you can, you dont have to worry about getting pregnant and the fun should be back, after ttc.
You dont even have to worry about periods :)
obvioulsy though, dont have sex if you are bleeding or find it painful.

But like I said, if you dont want too have sex just yet, then dont. Its your body, make him wait.

I think it's okay to have sex as long as the Dr. Says otherwise~if in doubt just ask!! I'm ten weeks and am still to scared to have sex with the b/f!! Probably has something to do with the low sex drive also! :wink:

My b/f thinks it would be ok but I don't want to hurt the baby or any thing to go wrong is that ok or not

Hey everyone.

I dont know. I guess every woman feels different about it. Im 5 weeks along and im having a great sex. It is great and it wont hurt the baby, since the baby is "sealed" far deep that there is no chance to get there or hurt. So dont be afraid ! I noticed actually sex makes me feel much better,more energized and relaxed.:)
but the decision belongs to you !

When I was pregnant, at the very beginning, I was so damn horney for oral sex. If either of you have your doubts, just have oral sex.

I think it is just as good, and sometimes even better.....

I think having sex while being pregnant is fine....Unless you are told otherwise by your doctor. I am two months pregnant (my first time for being pregnant; i'm so excited and can't wait 'til our baby gets here).....The other night me and my husband were giving full body massages.....After a 'lil bit we decided to do it because we haven't done it since I became pregnant.....We both really wanted it and were really in the mood; think it was one of the best sessions we've had in awhile. Me and my man haven't gave or received oral sex for awhile because we only do that once in a great while. But i'm pretty sure it's ok to. I'm going to another doctors appointment this evening and i'm gonna ask to make sure. But it could be different for everyone, depending on how your pregnancy's going!

My man doesn't do oral sex any more when we first started dating we would sometimes but we don't do ora lsex on eachother that much anymore.

Thats too bad!!!!

No not really we think it's disguisting and feel that it's not necessary in a marriage. Think actual sex is much better.

Sammy001

you shouldn't discuss your sex life. What goes on behind closed doors is you and your mans business. It's one thing to let people know that it's ok to have sex while being pregnant but you don't have to get into what you do.