Sometimes the court say 6 months and if they do well they get 3 months. .Sometimes they say life and they parol. There are so many things that the system can work out. Like I said this last time that my boyfriend was in jail he was supposed to be in for a year and he was out in 6 months. What did your boyfriend do? I have been to bootcamp, in florida, my mom sent me there everyweekend....I had to work work work and slam onto the floor and then I had to go and stand infront of bootcamp guy stayers and say what I had done and answer embarrasing questions. this is not something that I am proud of, but I made my way through that. I then went to jail and I got out when my mom agree to set curfews and little things like that. And florida is cruel....

Just keep your head up sweetheart, hope that I am making sense...

And no I feel you gurl!!

Stacie

I am pretty glad that things are working out like they are. My adivce: give him time and don't put too much into what he says. See how it goes.

So you've been locked up? Thats crazy. My man was locked up in aug. And hes still there for attempt homicide(hopefully the forum doesnt change the word). I've never been locked up, on probation, or boot camp. I've gotten arrested a few times but thats it. Hey, stacie what race are you? Are u from anywhere or was from somewhere? My man got in some neighborhood in juvie..Ever heard of crips? I dont gangbang..Never had..! But before I was fuc***g up so much I almost ended up in camp. What did you do that made your mom send you to camp. Whats it like in flordia..What kind of hoods are there. Is your man from n-e-where? You are one tough cookie!

Chandeloss.....What do you mean?Break it down for me gurl!

Thannks!! I am a little white girl, I have lived a lot of places in my life, and yes I have heard of krips. I almost got mixed in with them in fla. This one chick sent midnight krips after me...What could I do to my mother? I love her but I hate her ya know what I mean?? Her and I arent close....But I still love her and I respect her because she has helped me, if it wasnt for her I would probably be dead!! Thanks, I have always looked at myself as a tough cookie..Yes I have been locked up but it saved my life, and yes I have been to bootcamp but it made me stronger and I learned my boundaries...I have learned what I would do with my child, and I learned about the impact that people and areas can have on a person..Florida is very fast, I lived in ft.Lauderdale for a week and was running already. Its crazy down there. My sister got busy down there and she is 12. Lots of drugs, problems, madness. I loved the beach, cops dont care, I quit school and they didnt care, and I dont miss it really. I would like to go to the beach for vacation, but I would never move there agin.. Exspecially with my son, I want him to have fun but I want him to know what life is about too , and I want him to have an education, something fla is def. No know for.....Hope you get what I am saying to you gurl!!

Stacie

your great!!

Hey lildreamer how old is your jhonny?? I've seen your post and you are 17 right? Well I never got involved in any gangsta thing but I have two brothers who did so I was always around that kind of stuff my mother told me never to get involved with anything like that but what did I do well I did well sort of not really cause my hubs never banged or any of that but he was just bald and not bad dressed but his face and he used to smoke bud but now all that stopped but I know where your coming from girl that enviorment is bad and I definitely realize that because I lived my whole childhood like that but its all good so what race are you? I'm well hispanic mex-american born and raised in el paso, tx but now live in las vegas, nv and my fam is now here...

Lildreamer I meant to put this post in your other post gangsta lovin' sorry!!!

Well my johnny is 16....His birthday is on nov. 15..Hes going to b e 17. He's going to spend his birthday in juvie. Im haspanic! Thats right illision im 17! You?Illision you understand where im coming from..Huh gurl! You know! Where were your brothers from?Mesmerize...Your a white tough cookie...Lol..Its all good!

See lildreamer I was never interested in all that bull s**t!! So I didn't really care but my brothers were a pain in the ass they put my poor mommy thru hell a million times but now they are pretty good people they are starting to calm down they were in gangs since they were 11 years old and now they are 21 and 23 it was about damn time they settle they ass down but its still there you know its never gonna die but they were from some gang named crazy klika or something like that I dont really know its in texas though so your from cali right??

Hey lildreamer,
my boyfriend im w/ right now is in vice lords (hes black)if ya'll have heard of it? Hes not really active though he was just kinda born into his older brothers are like the head ones in springfield or were before they got arrested yah hes been in trouble but since ive moved here and we started getting serious he hasnt been in trouble! Im completely in love with him yah he dresses what you can say ghetto kinda thuggish but its cute because he doesnt really talk ghetto unless hes with certain friends then it comes out in him which I think is funny! But he is absolutely amazing and treats me right and loves me!!!! So yah girl I feel ya!! Oh just so ya know im white just in case you ask!Lol! Much love and god bless!!

Jen