Ya I was watching this tv program once...I think it was adoption stories, im not sure, but this lady gave up her baby, to a family that wanted to adopt her, and the lady had like...X...Amount of days to really make up her mind for sure, but after that and the papers were signed she couldent get her back. I think that foster care is the pre-addoption place. Like if someone gets cps called, theyll go to foster, till they get adopted perm.