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Q: Should I..?
asked by: *LiDdLeMoMmY15* on January 11th, 2005
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Move to my dads. My dad/step mom wants me to go to this school that makes you do your work at your own pas and that would be so awesome b/c I would like get out of high school less than a year!! That would be so good for the baby...

I mean they smoke but they smoke outside.. Which is good for me.. My mom, and bro smoke inside over here 80\.. Not good! Here r the disadvantages.. See when peyton tells his dad about the situation.. He is prolly gonna take away everything. So if I move 45mins. Away.. We might not get to see eachother much b/c most likely his car will be taken away.... And that would totally suck! Peyton cant live with us b/c my dad isnt all into that sleeping together not married crap. So I am in a bined.. What would yall do??

Peyton is also afraid we would drift apart.. But he is only worried in that department b/c im not. I am carrying his baby gezzz.. I wouldnt leave him.. What should I do.. Help!!!!
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pinkbaby
replied on January 11th, 2005
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Hhmmm...How old is peyton? Same age as you im guessing?
Well, that sucks hes gunna get grounded, but I think his dad will get over it. I mean if hes 16, he cant ground him for 2 whole years. I dont think. Haha. And as for your dad, I think its apparent to him that you 2 have slept together, I mean, your already pg, so he has nothing to be worried about. I think its important for you to finish school, even better if you can do it quick as possible, but its also important to maintain your relationship with peyton. I understand that your having his baby and that you wont leave him, but thats a good sign of him being spooky, it means he really loves you, and cares if you were to leave him, even though you wouldent. I guess it comes down to if your schooling is really that important to you. If it is, then move. Cant you look into an online school, so you can be with your baby and be around peyton?
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*LiDdLeMoMmY15*
replied on January 11th, 2005
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Peyton is about to be 18 on feb 07. I am going to ask my step mom if bois can go to that school... She really didnt say if they could or not.. She just said that is basically a school for pregnant teens. This is really hard. I also ride this bumpy bus on the way to school and home.. So I am scared of that.. And over at my dads they give me rides.. Im jjust gonna rest on it I guess... Welp! Thanks for the help!!

Xox jessica oxo
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sky
replied on January 11th, 2005
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If you think its going to be best for you and the baby I would do it, but in this situation I also think you need to really consider you bf's feelings. This is his baby too and he obviously really cares or he wouldnt be worried about yall drifting apart. He is probably wondering also how its going to work out after you have the baby, with him having to drive so far to see him/her. He may not get to see her as often as hed like, so it might be better for the babys sake for you not to go. Oh and im sure he wants to see you a bunch too :wink: btw im kinda wondering how your mom feels? Like is she upset? Just being nosy after the whole abortion thing. Wondering if shes coming around. Anyway* whatever you decide I wish you, peyton, and baby the best of luck!
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pinkbaby
replied on January 11th, 2005
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Well his dad cant ground him after he turns 18, can he?
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*LiDdLeMoMmY15*
replied on January 11th, 2005
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Thanks sky! I was thinking in my head what you said and you are right thank you!! I need to consider his feelings also. My mom she is disappointed in me.. Not mad.. She just rather me have an abortion but I am not even considering it.. She will just have to get over it and take me to the doc. Next week. 80) my dad cried.. I felt really bad.. B/c I am usually perfect and I am his little girl. It kinda felt weird when he said.. Ready to be a mommy??? I mean that came from my dad and I was alittle weirded out.. But yeah thats it!!

Xox jessica oxo
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Krista Kai
replied on January 11th, 2005
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I think you should wait til you can chill a little and not make any decisions like that right away. The main thing is to stay in school one way or the other and do as well as you can. Whether it's where you are now or someplace else is something you can decide later once your mom's got used to the situation and you've had a chance to really check out all the choices and options you have.

My dad says to never make a decision til you have to, cuz when you make a decision and do something about it you're also ruling out other choices that might turn oiut better for you. He says the first thing to do is nothing, except to check out what's really going on and then start to check out all the options you have so you'll be ready to make a decision when you have to.

So i'd say don't do anything for right now. Just check out what all your options are. Just stay in school cuz that's as important for you and your baby as eating right and everything else too.
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