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Q: Need Some Support!

asked by: sarahauntie on October 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Hello all,

i'm back again. Smile

here's the story. A week ago I met a guy and over the weekend we made out, and even though we didn't have sex things went to far. I don't want to have sex until I really love him, and i'm still a virgin. I really like him though, but every time we get together all we do is make out.

I'm going to tell him that we need to start over, that none of the stuff ever happened. That we need to act like we've never even had a first kiss yet, but he's really hard to resist. And he's so passionate! Exclamation

we even admit to each other that we're going to fast.

Help guys! I don't want to go to far, and I need some help to keep me strait path! Sad

Replies(3)

donalles

replied on October 27th, 2003

New User

What do you mean act like things had never happened? It easier said than done. I think you should just let him know that you have not actually had sex yet and you value that. Just see where it goes because if he is not the one you want to lose your virginity to you probably should stop leading him on by going to only second base because sooner or later he will be up at bat for the home run. Catch my drift

sarahauntie

replied on October 27th, 2003

Experienced User

Catch My Drift?

Well, what I mean is that we go on a date and pretend like it's our first. You know, start with the hand holding, and a kiss on the cheeck. We did make a rule for no french kissing, but we kind of broke it. I've already told him that i'm a virgin, and he said that that was no problem. I wasn't the only one who said that we need to take it slower, he said so himself. He said that he wants to get close , that he eventually wants a girlfriend. We just seem to have trouble controlling ourselves, it's not just me!

SandQueen

replied on November 7th, 2003

New User

It's Not Just You

That is what it sounds like, you seem to like him, and not like being a virgin. Take your time and maybe back off a little bit... Nothing says romance like a little mistery.

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