For some reason I always feel worried when
I have sex. Even though I always use
protection, and I know there is no way my
partner could be pregnant. I feel that
something was wrong, and I am so worried
until she starts her cycle. Why do I
think this?
This time though (again I know nothing
went wrong) she is 5 days late now, and
for some reason I am so worried. I am
having trouble sleeping, and I am already
trying to thgink of what to say if its
true. I want to stop thinking like this
it is interfering with my life, I couldnt
stop thinking about it today. I want to
stop thinking about it!!! Why do I think
the worse possible out of the cituation.
This is not all, sometimes I have a hard
time talking to new people. I think it
is because I know that people talk about
other people. I dont want to walk up to
someone and say hi and start talking
because I dont want to be rejected. I
know how people can be.
I also feel that people are always talking
about me, even those who I dont even know.
I think I am different (which I want to
be, but I also want to be accepted). I
think I sound weird, and I dont like a
whole lot about my self (except that I
think I am a nice guy).
I feel that whatever is wrong, has
recently gotten worse. Could someone give
me some info! Thanx
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mccar2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 4
Oh Yeah Posted: 01-10-05 23:59pm
I forgot something. I have been looking
for reasons for a delayed period over and
over again today. I get the same results
every time, and I feel I have to read them
over and over, and over.
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fraggle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 01-27-05 16:29pm
It sounds like the best thing to do is go
see your doctor and tell them how you've
been feeling. They can properly diagnose
you. Do you obsess about other things
besides your girlfriends period, cause if
you do it could be you have obsessive
compulsive disorder. It can be genetic
so if anyone else in your family has it
you could be a candidate. My best advise
is to talk to your doctor. Good luck
:lol:
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Clinicofgeniuses
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 01-29-05 17:14pm
Wow, tough situation.
You have a lot of people in your life
that you care about. I think they care
about you too, but have temporarlly lost
the connection with you.
I think you have to pick one
uncomfortability and own it. In other
words take it to heart. This wil bring
more uncomfortablity. Let it stand jsut
above your heart. He he,..Don't put it
there :-) , just let it hover there while
you are being mindful of the first
uncomfortability that you are
concentrating on forgetting. .... And
so on. Being mindful, and not allowing
yourself to get lost in your worries is
the way to go. Your mind will produce
all sorts of uncomfortablities to make you
uncomfortale. This is what is happening.
Accept it. Soon the uncomfortabilites
will make themselves uncomfortable. Just
watch it happen. There is nothing you
can do about it.
In other words, simplify your life.
Your are growing up and you need to
realize what person you are going to
become. A well adjusted, insighful
individual with a bright future.
If you can't take....Then as they say,
"go to the doctor".
