Boyfriend Or Best Friend?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now and in the beggining my best friend and him were friends no they hate each other and she dosent want me talking about him in front of her and she thinks I should dump him because last wwekend when I was staying the night at her house I called him and my best friend said he was a !**@! and so he hung up and I kept calling him till he would ansewer and not hang up on me and so then my best friend called and was talking to his friend her ex-boyfriend that was staying at his house about why he hung up on me for something I didnt do or say and then she was talking to my boyfriend and I guess he called me a "stupid b****" and so she got mad and then her phone died so we had to charge it and so we were just talking and she was like u need to dump him cuz he said you were a stupid health question and that he thinks he is in charge of me and stuff like that.So when I went home the next day I asked him if it was true and I asked him why he said that and we talked it over and no we are fine.I think he just says those things when I have friends over or he does or if im staying at a friends house or he is cuz when we are alone on the phone he dosent act like that. My question is what can I do so they are ok with eachother but im not asking for them to be friends im just asking if they can not hate eachother anymore because I love both of them!