Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 9 Location: raleigh north carolina
What Do You Do? Posted: 01-07-05 12:17pm
What do you gurls do when you are really
in love with someone and you get into this
really big argument and he tells you to
stay out of his life and then he get's
missing for 2 weeks and then comes back
with another gurl and on top of that they
have only been going out for 2 weeks and
he has a tatoo with her name on it and she
has a tatoo with his name on it (we dated
for 5 years) but what i'm tryna get at is
every time I see them together it hurts me
so bad because i'm tellin myself that I
can get over him but then when there
around i'm telling myself I cant what
should I do?
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sarah88
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 194 Location: *louisiana*
Posted: 01-07-05 12:22pm
Geez that makes me sick!!Maybe she is a
rebound girl to make you jealous I really
cant say because I dont know the kind of
relationship you guys have!!
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Max_Mummy too be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2004 Posts: 238 Location: Hampshire- England
Posted: 01-07-05 12:23pm
The best advise I can give, is too avoid
your ex as much as possible. (i dont
know if you work with him, or live close
too him etc)
but even though it seems you cant get over
him right now, you will get over him in
time.
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alwaysputdown123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 9 Location: raleigh north carolina
Posted: 01-07-05 12:26pm
I mean we go to the same school and not to
tell all of her buisness but she has done
basically every guy at my school and trust
me thats alot of guys and on top of that
she's pregnant by her "ex" and we had a
real close relationship and I am trying my
best to stay as far away from him as
possible but it seems like the more I try
to stay away from him the more I see him.
:(
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 01-07-05 12:36pm
Once she has the other guys baby things
will start to fall apart. But the
question is why would you want to be with
a guy who treats you like that?
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Max_Mummy too be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2004 Posts: 238 Location: Hampshire- England
Posted: 01-07-05 12:52pm
Out of interest, are you pregnant?
It just seems a little weird that you are
posting about your break up on the
pregnancy topic.
Also in the "broken hearted" topic you
mentioned that you didnt care any more.
All I can guess is, that one of you has
done/said something very bad to the
other. And if thats the case it might
not be wise to get back together, and
from what it seems, he dosent want too
get back with you.
I just re-read my post, and it sounds a
little b*tchy, its not supposed to,so I
hope its not taken the wrong way.
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alwaysputdown123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 9 Location: raleigh north carolina
Posted: 01-10-05 11:43am
O.K. First of all I am new to this
website and I dont know how to put a
certain topic wherever it's supposed to go
mrs max_mummy too be so there's the answer
to your question and I dont want to be
with him anymore because I have realized
how much pain I have already put my self
through dealing with his mess and I dont
want to put myself thourgh no more pain
but I also think that i'm gonna wind up
hurting myself over him and I dont want to
do that.
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Max_Mummy too be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2004 Posts: 238 Location: Hampshire- England
Posted: 01-10-05 13:16pm
alwaysputdown123
wrote:
mrs max_mummy too be
im not a mrs, im a miss.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 01-10-05 15:22pm
Id disapear no matter how much it hurt
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alwaysputdown123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 9 Location: raleigh north carolina
Posted: 01-11-05 12:02pm
I cant leave because i'm in school and I
mean if if had a choice trust me I would
have been don gone but I dont want to make
it seem like i'm running away from my
problems because that's not the way to
handle things. I mean I guess I have to
stick with the hurt because I have always
choose to run away from my problems but
this time I have to stay because the only
way I think i'm gonna get over him is if I
just stay where i'm at because like my
best friend told me the more you'r hurt
ther more you'll understand your pain and
it will also teach you to not fall into
the same bull s*@$ again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 01-11-05 16:51pm
Hi there! My opinion is to shine them
on, tune them out, act like they do not
exist. I am sure that it hurts like
heck! You are better then they are.
You deserve someone better, each day will
get better, at least you will not have to
deal with that persons baloney.
The best to you!
Sandy
