Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 1 Location: blackburn, england
Tight Foreskin But Not Phimosis Posted: 01-07-05 10:32am
I am 31 and still a virgin. All my adult
life I have only been able to retract my
foreskinpart way over the glans. I have
read that this is 'phimosis' but I do not
have the tight white ring which is
associated with phimosis.
On odd occasions in the past the foreskin
has got stuck behind the head of the glans
and have been able to get it unstuck
myself. I know how to control the
foreskin when masturbating so this doesn't
happen anymore.
Does anyone know if I can overcome this
ovre time with the gentle stretching of my
foreskin or has anyone had or have this
problem?
It has put me off sex a few times as I
don't trust how my penis will handle it.
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aussben
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Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 13 Location: Austalia
. Posted: 11-13-05 04:12am
Stretching fixes it and the use of a cream
call diprosone it's steriod that helps the
skin stretch.
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Andy2001
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Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 12
Posted: 11-29-05 19:59pm
I had the same problem.. I think best way
is try streching during shower.. Water
work as lubricant.
It is little painful initially.. But will
be okay after few days..
If you are really aggressive about it..
You should be abe to fix it in a month.
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-01-05 00:25am
Yeah water really shouldn't be used as a
lubricant; it can cause some skin
irritation when used as a lubricant...
But yeah, try the cream; supposidly it
works very well. I think you need a
prescription though...
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micke
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Joined: 02 Oct 2006 Posts: 21
Posted: 10-23-06 17:38pm
What about your frenulum? It is a string
that connects the foreskin with the head
of the penis. What size is it? Could it
be it that is preventing retraction or is
it really the opening of the foreskin?
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 76
Posted: 12-30-06 15:36pm
He will not know for sure until the
foreskin is loosened somewhat more.
If he can get the foreskin to retract
whilst erect, I am sure that a steroid
like betamethasone valerate will help.
Even after I first experience vaginal
penetration, my foreskin would not retract
even when flaccid. Even a slight tug
would cause discomfort as only a small
opening existed. Whilst I use condoms
anyhow, it was the only thing from
allowing me to penetrate without the risk
of damage to the tissue at the time.
Whilst I used the steroid that I have
mentioned, betnovate in the uk, stretching
was easy up until the point when I
realised that I had a short frenulum.
Fortunately, even this stretched just
enough for me to achieve complete comfort
in penetration. Couple that with the
fact that it is of the thick variety, and
it is strong enough not to tear.
Sometimes it will stretch, other times it
requires an operation which will hopefully
leave the frenulum intact, whilst
effectively adding length to it.
The only problem that I have now is that
if I do not keep up the stretching
techniques that I have used to great
effect, the skin will tighten.
I would rather deal with this, than having
the extreme circumcision performed upon my
person however.
Do not make any rash decisions, and use
all tools at your disposal.
Aside from steroid ointments/creams (which
ever you prefer), warmth should aid you in
your manipulation of the skin. Even
seamen itself may (though do not quote me
on this) contain qualities that aid with
stretching.
There is absolutely no need to rush
this.
It can take weeks (which was true of me
despite having only a small opening
available) to around 6 months.
When the time is right you will be using
protection any how I trust (unless you are
the type who believes in marriage before
sex, which is up to you). This will
help you work out what feels comfortable
and what does not.
If the worst comes to the worst there are
partial circumcisions (although some
surgeons will refuse to perform them or
even claim that there is "no such
thing").
Even when circumcised one can retain some
of what is lost (but not all) through
foreskin restoration techniques. I have
not looked too much into these, but I am
quite certain that they do work by
actually promoting skin growth, as opposed
to mere stretching.
Good luck, and think positive.
Be prepared to encounter doctors who tell
you such and such is not possible. This
is something that is not understood well
in the uk and us a like. Not sure about
other countries.
It does seem however that the medical
profession are getting to grips with the
other options available.