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Q: I Am Scarred And Worried

asked by: pups on January 4th, 2005

New User

Hi! My name is samantha and I am 19 years old. I am writing to anyone who who listen and hopefully be able to give me some advice. I believe I may be pregant and it scares me very much. I should not get my period for like 5 more days though I just feel very werid and hae a stong feeling I am pregnant. These are my symtoms...Boops hurt, horrible lower back pasin, cramps, and heaachs. As I write this I must tell u I never get any form of pms also I am on the patch, though we all know it is never 100%. I am going to the doctor on friday though the thoughts going though my head are driving me nuts, do you think it is a real possibility or just in my head. I would love for someone to respond and maybe that can help to calm my nerves. Thank you so much in advance hope to talk to someone soon!!

Replies(21)

sarahsweet

replied on January 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Aw its ok hunnie. You will know soon enough...And whether or not you are pregnant or not, you will always get support here from us. You will be ok....When was the last time you had unprotected sex?

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Heres the Deal

I know this sounds unsual but I am highly allergic to latex, so me and my bf never use condoms. Though I can say befor we ever did anything we got tested togeather and are both clean. So after going on the patch we figured all was ok. I have never had a scare like this befor. Last month I got my period though it was really really light almost like spoting. Though I never really thought anything of it till this past week when I started to feel so sick all the time.

sarahsweet

replied on January 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Hmmm...Well it looks like unfortunately you are going to have to play the waiting game and wait for your period to come! If it doesnt, then test away and let us know what the results are!

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Thanks so much for talking to me its men more then words can explain I feel so alone and scared right now. I just dont want to tell or worry my bf even though I have a feeling he is thinking it due to he keeps joking that im acting pregnant(all the symtoms) and that fact that he insists on going to the doctor with my friday(even though he knows I dont want him to).

sarahsweet

replied on January 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Well thats what we are here for! You are never alone hunnie. At least he is being supportive you know?? Thats a good thing!

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

I know it should be a really good thing, but I feel that if I am I would want to find out on my own first. I just dont know how I will handle the news so I rather know so I can think for a bit befor telling him and seeing how he reacts. Though if we are both there and I am then we will find out togeather. Was your bf with you when u found out??

sarahsweet

replied on January 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Aw, I understand sweetie. No.....I took it while I was at work, and I really didnt completely think I was pregnant...And boom, I was. So I went home right away and showed it to him, I didnt have much time to think even before I told him, I just had to tell him! And he reacted fine. He just smiled and told me everything was going to be ok, adn that we would get through this.

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Aww that really sweet. I hope that my bf would have the same reation. I really do live him so much and we do one day want to have children togeather. We want to get marreid we want to have it all. We are so pathitic have our whole lives planeed togeather just I didnt expect to face this for many more years. We both wanted to go though college first. I am such a worry wort and I dont even know yet...

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Aww that really sweet. I hope that my bf would have the same!reation. I really do live him so much and we do one day want to have children togeather. We want to get marreid we want to have it all. We are so pathitic have our whole lives planeed togeather just I didnt expect to face this for many more years. We both wanted to go though college first. I am such a worry wort and I dont even know yet...

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Sorry I sent that twice by accident

Krista Kai

replied on January 4th, 2005

Experienced User

Samantha I know hmw you feel. At least you'll know one way or the other friday. I know that doesn't make you feel any better right now, but at least you won't have to wait much longer - like about 60 hours. No matter what, this is a great board and the people here are really good. Good luck to you!

sarahsweet

replied on January 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

pups wrote:

aww that really sweet. I hope that my bf would have the same reation. I really do live him so much and we do one day want to have children togeather. We want to get marreid we want to have it all. We are so pathitic have our whole lives planeed togeather just I didnt expect to face this for many more years. We both wanted to go though college first. I am such a worry wort and I dont even know yet...

i know how you feel! I wasnt planning on this for quite a while myself! I wanted to finish college..Get a teaching job, and be well off before I got pregnant, but you know what? We get suprises everyday, and either way, you will be fine dear.

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Thanks so much you made me feel alot better. Best of luck to you and your baby!!

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

O that was more that one person talking sorry best of luck to both of you!! I am going to school right now to be a teacher!!

Krista Kai

replied on January 4th, 2005

Experienced User

A teacher? Cool, that's what i'd like to be some day too. I love kids and i'd love to be an elementary school teacher. What kind of teacher are you studying to be?

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

I want to teach disabled babies(the ealier there education starts the better for them). Like down syndrome and autistic. So many people in the world treat them so horrible. I hate anyone who treats them bad should be ashamed of themselfs. They are people too just have a harder time learning thats all.

Krista Kai

replied on January 4th, 2005

Experienced User

Wow, i've really gotta admire you for that!! Good luck with it!

pups

replied on January 4th, 2005

New User

Thanks!! I am sure you will make a great teacher some day. And I am sure you will treat you baby so mny wonderful things when he/she is born!!

Krista Kai

replied on January 4th, 2005

Experienced User

Aww, thanks! :) all you can do is try, and i'm gonna try my best.

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