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Q: Can I Be Pregnant?
asked by: Lilyintrouble on October 25th, 2003
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Help!

I don't know if I could be pregnant or not. Me and my boyfriend were "fooling around", we didn't have sex but his penis was inside of me for a couple of seconds. But this happened 2-3 times. Is it possible for me to be pregant? And if it is how soon could I take a pregnancy test? I looked at some of them and they said you could tell 4-5 days before your next period but I won't have mine for another 3-4 weeks. I'd really like all of the help I can get because i'm really too young to be having a baby and it is making me very nervious not knowing if I am or if i'm not. Thank you I appriciate it alot. Crying or Very sad
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Darling
replied on October 25th, 2003
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Anytime a penis enters your vagina unprotected there is a chance of pregnancy. I would urge (since you two seem to be getting very close) that you buy a box of condoms or get on the pill! This will prevent any unwanted pregnancies. There is definitely a chance of pregnancy however I would beleive its on the low side. And yes its true you do have to wait till your 4-5 days late on your period. In fact for some people that is too early, and they have to wait till they are late a few weeks. Don't stress until then because that could delay your period even further. You'll be fine no matter what the results are and if your not pregnant I would invest in some form of contraceptive! Best of luck
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Juice
replied on October 26th, 2003
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His Penis Was In You a Few Times, Dear,, You Did Have Sex..
Sorry to say, you did have sex, having his penis inside of you, a few times, well , that is sex, good luck with your future test, I hope and pray you are not pregnant,, it is very hard on young people to raise children. If you do come up pregnant, please look into maybe giving the baby to another family. By no means, do you choose any other option if you can't raise the child yourself.

Good luck.

Juice
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shone2003
replied on October 28th, 2003
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darling wrote:
anytime a penis enters your vagina unprotected there is a chance of pregnancy. I would urge (since you two seem to be getting very close) that you buy a box of condoms or get on the pill! This will prevent any unwanted pregnancies. There is definitely a chance of pregnancy however I would beleive its on the low side. And yes its true you do have to wait till your 4-5 days late on your period. In fact for some people that is too early, and they have to wait till they are late a few weeks. Don't stress until then because that could delay your period even further. You'll be fine no matter what the results are and if your not pregnant I would invest in some form of contraceptive! Best of luck
hi darling, I had the same problem only that before I had sex with the boy im with now I was a virgin therefore we didnt use a condom and now I think im pregnant. It happened on october 20. Should I be showing any ssymptomsand my period has not yet came down and usually comes down on the last week of the month but it haven't came down yet. Is it to early to get a home pregnancy tests because I need to know now because im to young for pregnancy. I am only fifteen. Please reply.
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shone2003
replied on October 28th, 2003
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darling wrote:
anytime a penis enters your vagina unprotected there is a chance of pregnancy. I would urge (since you two seem to be getting very close) that you buy a box of condoms or get on the pill! This will prevent any unwanted pregnancies. There is definitely a chance of pregnancy however I would beleive its on the low side. And yes its true you do have to wait till your 4-5 days late on your period. In fact for some people that is too early, and they have to wait till they are late a few weeks. Don't stress until then because that could delay your period even further. You'll be fine no matter what the results are and if your not pregnant I would invest in some form of contraceptive! Best of luck
hi darling, I had the same problem only that before I had sex with the boy im with now I was a virgin therefore we didnt use a condom and now I think im pregnant. It happened on october 20. Should I be showing any ssymptomsand my period has not yet came down and usually comes down on the last week of the month but it haven't came down yet. Is it to early to get a home pregnancy tests because I need to know now because im to young for pregnancy. I am only fifteen. Please reply.
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Darling
replied on October 28th, 2003
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Oh honey...
You said that you didn't use a condom because you were a virgin? You can still get pregnant the first time you have sex. No I don't think you would be showing any signs of pregnancy yet. When is your next period due? Or are you already late on it? If your late then rush over to the drug store and buy a pg test but if your still waiting then dont stress just yet. ((hugs)) to you my dear! And please use protection in the future! Compared to the std's out there pregnancy would be the least of your worries!
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shone2003
replied on October 30th, 2003
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Hi, darling once again. Yes i'am late on my period, its been about a week now. Now I really know im pregnant without a doubt now I have to worry about telljng my mother so do you have any advice about that. One more thing is there a way I can lose the baby without going through all this,meaning an abortion, I mean how does a miscarriage takes place because I cant have this baby and I dont want it. Please reply.
Thanx.
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f4gtit
replied on October 31st, 2003
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There's that "morning after" pill. But I don't know how safe it is so you should research that first. I am also in the same boat. I had sex for the first time after two years and no protection even though I knew better. But my friend told me if I took a month supply of bc pills at one time it would make my period happen. I haven't taken a test yet but the ones at wal-mart are pretty reliable after a week or two of being late.
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Darling
replied on October 31st, 2003
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My god! Do not under any circumstances take a month's supply of the birth control pill. How long has it been since you both had sex? If it has been 72 hours or less then go to a doctor or planned parenthood near you to get the morning after pill.
Shone: I would under no circumstances give you advice to induce a miscarriage. I am not a fan of abortion but it is much safer then inducing a miscarriage. You could have internal hemmoraging, infections etc.
You should find out for sure if you are pregnant. Sometimes the stress of it all can delay your period. Pregnancy tests from the drugstore are from 7-13$ usually so borrow some money off of someone. You will eventually have to tell your mom and I would suggest if possible to just sit her down and explain your situation. She will be disappointed but she will forgive you. You can then (if you are pregnant) discuss the options of adoption or abortion (whatever suits your circumstances)
hope it all goes well honey
~darling
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shone2003
replied on November 1st, 2003
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Hi darling, its me again I just wanted to tell you that I have gotten my period but heard that it could just be vaginal bleeding because you get it around the same time that your period is suppose to happen. Therefore im still unsure of what the outcome is. Once again I need your help. It seems like my period its normal and I been having bad cramps like I use to. It really dont seem so different but im still not sure. Reply a.S.A.P.
Hugs and kisses.
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A-Lil'Mama*2
replied on November 3rd, 2003
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Got Your Period!!!!!!
If your bleedind like you normally would, than don't stress, your fine. If the bleeding is unusually light, you may still want to take a test.

Be careful. Take precautions. I have two small boys. It's hard.


Marissa
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la toya
replied on November 4th, 2003
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shone2003 wrote:
darling wrote:
anytime a penis enters your vagina unprotected there is a chance of pregnancy. I would urge (since you two seem to be getting very close) that you buy a box of condoms or get on the pill! This will prevent any unwanted pregnancies. There is definitely a chance of pregnancy however I would beleive its on the low side. And yes its true you do have to wait till your 4-5 days late on your period. In fact for some people that is too early, and they have to wait till they are late a few weeks. Don't stress until then because that could delay your period even further. You'll be fine no matter what the results are and if your not pregnant I would invest in some form of contraceptive! Best of luck
hi darling, I had the same problem only that before I had sex with the boy im with now I was a virgin therefore we didnt use a condom and now I think im pregnant. It happened on october 20. Should I be showing any ssymptomsand my period has not yet came down and usually comes down on the last week of the month but it haven't came down yet. Is it to early to get a home pregnancy tests because I need to know now because im to young for pregnancy. I am only fifteen. Please reply.
girl I know what your going through bcuz the same thing happened to me but on the 25 of october , i'm only fourteen and I don't know if I am and this is realy bugging me and my boyfriend.He said if I am pregnent he want's me to hane and abortion but I don't want that to happen Embarassed
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babygirl1025
replied on November 4th, 2003
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Hey People I Am Scared Could You Help Me Out??
Hey everyone! I am very scared both me and my boyfriend. I am 14 and I think I might be pregnet. But I am not sure. My peorid should of been like 3 days ago but it wasnt and I am very scared. I think I might be but I am not sure. My boyfriend is very scared.. I am not going to tell my mom cuz she will never let me see my boyfriend brian again and I dont want that to happen. On oct. 27 I bled a little but then next day I wasnt at all. So I am not sure what is going on and I am very scraed. I wont keep the baby if I am because I am not ready. But how do I know for suer if I am?? Could you give me some help.. Well plzz let me know soon. Thank you so much.. Crying or Very sad

love always,
~!Me!~
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Darling
replied on November 4th, 2003
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Hi honey
go to your local drug store and buy a pregnancy test. This will be able to determine whether you are pregnant or not. If you are you will eventually have to tell your mom, especially if you do not plan on keeping the child. Did you have unprotected sex with your boyfriend? Is this why your worried that you might be pregnant??
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babygirl1025
replied on November 10th, 2003
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Hey
Hey I still dont know if I am pergent. I am not sure yet and I am still scared I am going o get a home pergnancy test and then I will know.. I dont think I am cuz I havent got any fatter or anything and yeah. But I havent had my period.. Yes I didnt use anything when we had sex.. He didnt cum in me or anything but I dont know.. Well plzz write me back thanx so much....

Love always,
~me~ Embarassed
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texaslonghorns42
replied on November 10th, 2003
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Pregnancy
I just had sex for the first time 2 days ago, I didn't use protection- my boyfriend didn't cum inside of me but he stuck it back in after he came. What are the chances that I might be pregnant? And he came on me not in me, can I still be pregnant?
If you have any advise please let me know, thank you

-frightned- Crying or Very sad
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