Question For the Guys

Well you say, he is 33 years old, and does not want sex.. It happens to both women and men. I am 40 yrs old, and want it all the time. I have heard of both men and women having the same issue. Not sure if anything is actually wrong with the guy, just his sex drive is low. And of course, there are things he could probably take, I am not sure of what, because like I said, I have no problems in that area at all..


Juice

I'd say the poor guy has a problem such as job related or depression. When I was that age I wanted sex as much as possible. Now that i'm older, I still want sex but can't perform. Is your husband on medication?
Some meds take the desire away. My wife is willing and able 24/7. It's she now who must understand me.

My doctor tested my tos., said it was normal. The wife and me think its the dam blood pressure medicine and depression meds.

I told the doctor I have no desire for sex. Upsets me because my wife is ten years younger than me and I want to please her. She is willing to do anything for me but nothing works.

I have no feelings, its like the medication just takes the 100% feeling and cuts it down to 20 %, which is not enough to complete the sex act.

I think it varies from person to person...I can turn my sex drive on and off.

Sometimes I want sex constantly other times I couldn't care less for it.

Maybe you have a hormonal imbalance.

You need to get your partner to get testosterone levels checked. This is the hormone that gives men their sex drive.

If this checks out okay, look at factors causing reduced sex drive such as depression, medication, lifestyle etc.

A visit to the doctor is in order.Many things can effect your sex drive.If your hubby is on any kind of meds,that could be the culprit.If you read the list of side-effects on many meds,sexual side-effects can happen with many of them.Stress is another big one,if your hubby is stressed out,sex can be affected.He should see his doc and be honest.Many men see thier docs due to loss of sex drive and it's not something to ignore.Good luck to both of you!Patty

My partner just has a low sex drive.
He isn't on any meds, doesn't suffer from excess stress or any other similar things. He just plain and simple has never had a high sex drive, just like I have never had the urge to eat certain foods, or do certain sports.
However we have a very strong relationship, with plenty of touching be it holding hands or cuddling.
A low sex drive doesn't mean no children - I am now 3 months pregnant.
For our entire relationship we probably have has sex only every couple of months, although sometimes it will be several times for a few days then nothing for ages.
So don't worry - enjoy what you have, and remember there are plenty more ways to get sexual pleasure other than penetration.

There isn't anything necessarily wrong with him and I doubt he needs medical treatment. He may just not be in the mood.

However, if you are round about the same age then you should be hitting your sexual peak, so you need to tell him to get some viagra!!!!!!!! You only get your peak once!