Hey all,
just signed up to this site, I am 24 years old and was a virgin until about a month ago. I started dating this girl about 2 months ago(the longest relationship ive been in before this was about 3 weeks!). Before this I masturbated frequently.. Sometimes 2 or 3 times a day, everyday. Being able to stop an orgasm never seemed like a problem to me since I could just let go of my penis and wait a minute or 2 and start again. But now having sex its not the same, the feeling is just so good and when my girl is all into it I cant help myself but let go and come within m inutes of penetration.

She is very understanding and just wants to help me overcome this obstacle. She doesnt consider it a problem but obvioulsy wants to have intercourse for more than a minute or 2. What I feel happenign is when were doing foreplay I get so aroused, I love pleasuring her and it makes me want to ejaculate in my shorts( one time I did). When we finally get to intercourse my feelings are so built up that I just explode soon after penetration.

I would love advice as how to be in full control of my orgasms and be able to have sex with her for longer. She definetly gets her sexual needs filled as I make her orgasm multiple times from foreplay and the short sex we do have, but we usually talk about it afterwords and wish I could last longer.

Any advice? I dont want drugs or creams or anything like that as I dont think I need it, I just think going 24 years without it and finally geting it is such a mind stimulant that I cant help but orgasm.

Thanks in advance for any help.