In my opinion. If you feel like you are not ready to have a baby then you are not ready. You need to talk to your partner about it. Tell him that you feel that you are not ready. Also you could ask him why he is wanting a baby so bad. That is if you are just dating or you just got married. I hope I don't make anybody mad or hurt any feelings.

Tell your partner to medical question off

Tell him no. It is your body not his. If he want sex, it is going to be with birthcontrol. Else, he can go without.

(and no, he can not force you. That would be illegal.)

It seems to me that the two least complicated solutions would be to first tell him you are not ready to have a baby and that you plan on taking the pill until you are ready, and/ or insist he always wear a condom during sex. I can ever so slightly understand his annoyance with condoms when he wants to get pregnant, but unless you are married you shouldn't even have to justify the numerous reasons for protecting yourself. I'll tell you this much, I am married, and in my last trimester of pregnancy. I am very excited about this baby and my hubby is a fantastic guy...But I am the one who has carried the entire burden of this pregnancy. The discomforts as well as the emotional aspects. My dh has made no attempt to be more helpful and uses the term "we" every single day when referring to this pregnancy. If you are not ready, then you alone need to make sure this does not happen. Best of luck!
Sarah

Thanks, he finally agreed!