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rob_riz

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Controlling Orgasm
Posted: 01-03-05 12:13pm

Hello all:

i hope someone would be able to help me out.

I am 23yrs old male, and in a good health but I can't seem to control my orgasm! I mean after 2 - 3 mins of insertion, I would get off. It is frustrating for my partner and even worse for me. And now we are at a point where my partner would avoid having sex with me. :(

is there anything that can be done to overcome my problem? I sure would appreciate your help, if you can. Thanks you so much and have a great day...

Thanks in advance.
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king2004

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Posted: 01-06-05 21:02pm

How about having oral sex first? Then u can stick the meat stick in the woman
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rob_riz

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Posted: 01-07-05 12:50pm

King2004 posted: 01-06-05 9:02pm post subject:

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how about having oral sex first? Then u can stick the meat stick in the woman
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it kinda takes the ecitement away! You know what I mean?
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Justin_Toronto

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Posted: 01-30-05 11:33am

The first thing you must understand is that this is mental issue. You can control your orgasm if you really want to... All men can. Try not concentrating so much on what's happening to let yourself last longer.

Another approach is to masturbate a good 1-2 hours in advance and orgasm. Your second orgasm will take much longer as your body requires time to build up reserves before release.

A third thing you can do is use a thicker condom which really does take away from the sensitivity and feeling of penetration. Less stimualation = last longer.

This may be something you want to practice how to do on your own first... Staying hard for prolonged periods of time, and ejaculating only when ready.
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Justin_Toronto

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Posted: 01-30-05 11:33am

The first thing you must understand is that this is mental issue. You can control your orgasm if you really want to... All men can. Try not concentrating so much on what's happening to let yourself last longer.

Another approach is to masturbate a good 1-2 hours in advance and orgasm. Your second orgasm will take much longer as your body requires time to build up reserves before release.

A third thing you can do is use a thicker condom which really does take away from the sensitivity and feeling of penetration. Less stimualation = last longer.

This may be something you want to practice how to do on your own first... Staying hard for prolonged periods of time, and ejaculating only when ready.
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dominique

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Posted: 02-18-05 00:10am

Justin, how is it you know the answer to..Well everything ? Haha. I'm not yelling at you or saying your answers are wrong. I really think it's funny. You always have good advice!
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fallingup

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Posted: 02-22-05 13:44pm

Yeah jus beat yo meat before u smash
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Justin_Toronto

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Posted: 02-22-05 17:59pm

dominique wrote:
justin, how is it you know the answer to..Well everything ? Haha. I'm not yelling at you or saying your answers are wrong. I really think it's funny. You always have good advice!


simple. I'm a robot. :shock:
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watty

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Posted: 03-23-05 02:40am

To last longer when your about to orgasm slow down a lot. When your ready again go for it then slow down again and so on. U can practice this by masturbating
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starrnova16

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Posted: 03-23-05 04:29am

Okay, thats prolly not how you spell it, but it is used in some condoms that actually kinda numb the penis and is supposed to make you last longer. I'm not sure of course because i'm not a guy, and I don't know any who have tried it but who knows. This might help you, but its worth a try. I know durex makes a condom with it.
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Unifier

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Posted: 10-09-08 12:12pm

try jacking off b4 you meet her (at least a couple of hours b4) and this should help you last longer b4 you shoot lol

also to help her enjoy the whole experience more try giving her oral like King2004 says IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT IT TAKES THE FUN AWAY there are two of you ya know.. besides its the dick part thats the problem atm. you dont wont her avioding sex with you so please her and COMMUNICATE.

oral sex, jack off b4, spend more time on foreplay

gd luck
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furrytail

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Posted: 10-09-08 18:26pm

Well there have been a lot of comments given, and thanks to Justin for some excellent ones.

I agree with working on controlling the orgasm through practice by masturbating, also masturbating a few hours before will help tremendously. You may also be able to find solutions to dullen the sensitivity of your penis (see you doctor aobut this, and don't be embarassed as this is something that happens to a lot of guys).

Wendy
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