How about having oral sex first? Then u can stick the meat stick in the woman

King2004 posted: 01-06-05 9:02pm post subject:

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how about having oral sex first? Then u can stick the meat stick in the woman
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it kinda takes the ecitement away! You know what I mean?

The first thing you must understand is that this is mental issue. You can control your orgasm if you really want to... All men can. Try not concentrating so much on what's happening to let yourself last longer.

Another approach is to masturbate a good 1-2 hours in advance and orgasm. Your second orgasm will take much longer as your body requires time to build up reserves before release.

A third thing you can do is use a thicker condom which really does take away from the sensitivity and feeling of penetration. Less stimualation = last longer.

This may be something you want to practice how to do on your own first... Staying hard for prolonged periods of time, and ejaculating only when ready.

The first thing you must understand is that this is mental issue. You can control your orgasm if you really want to... All men can. Try not concentrating so much on what's happening to let yourself last longer.

Another approach is to masturbate a good 1-2 hours in advance and orgasm. Your second orgasm will take much longer as your body requires time to build up reserves before release.

A third thing you can do is use a thicker condom which really does take away from the sensitivity and feeling of penetration. Less stimualation = last longer.

This may be something you want to practice how to do on your own first... Staying hard for prolonged periods of time, and ejaculating only when ready.

Justin, how is it you know the answer to..Well everything ? Haha. I'm not yelling at you or saying your answers are wrong. I really think it's funny. You always have good advice!

Yeah jus beat yo meat before u smash

simple. I'm a robot. :shock:

To last longer when your about to orgasm slow down a lot. When your ready again go for it then slow down again and so on. U can practice this by masturbating

Okay, thats prolly not how you spell it, but it is used in some condoms that actually kinda numb the penis and is supposed to make you last longer. I'm not sure of course because i'm not a guy, and I don't know any who have tried it but who knows. This might help you, but its worth a try. I know durex makes a condom with it.

try jacking off b4 you meet her (at least a couple of hours b4) and this should help you last longer b4 you shoot lol

also to help her enjoy the whole experience more try giving her oral like King2004 says IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT IT TAKES THE FUN AWAY there are two of you ya know.. besides its the dick part thats the problem atm. you dont wont her avioding sex with you so please her and COMMUNICATE.

oral sex, jack off b4, spend more time on foreplay

gd luck

Well there have been a lot of comments given, and thanks to Justin for some excellent ones.

I agree with working on controlling the orgasm through practice by masturbating, also masturbating a few hours before will help tremendously. You may also be able to find solutions to dullen the sensitivity of your penis (see you doctor aobut this, and don't be embarassed as this is something that happens to a lot of guys).

Wendy

just gonna copy and paste an old post i did a couple months back

btw, the masturbation suggestions, just want to make a point that u move ur HIP not your hand, it should give you a better feel on how it would be during sex. it makes sense since you move ur hip while having sex.

Below is the copied and pasted post:

there are two things u can do.

1) use a condom like Durex Performax, the condom actually has a lubricant inside the condom that helps you control climax.

2) breathe and slow down!
Slow down ur breathing when u thinking ur near climax and do deep breathing the ones u can feel in ur gut. ur body is reacting to the sensations its feeling as ur having sex, as u near ur climax ur breathing quickens and shortens as a reaction which in turn pushes for climax so slow ur breathing and take deep breaths. The other thing to do while u slow ur breathing is to slow down! ur penis is getting quite a bit of sensation when ur having sex and the faster u go the more friction so don't go humping like a rabbit.

you can actually practice this by masturbation. lock urself in ur room and have 30 minutes to urself. then go at it slowly, and notice how ur body reacts as it gets closer to climax, when ur close to ur peak slow down and breathe, at first u might not be able to, u probably just go right thru, but that's why it's practice. after a few times u might start to get the hang of it. if u can last for 15 minutes, u pretty much can control ur ejaculation.

if it doesn't help and it really bothers u, there's sex therapy.

stay safe, have fun and hope this helps

rob_riz.

everyone has great suggestions here. all are along a few lines.

1) jack off beforehand
2) do oral on her
3) stick her after she has already had an orgasm from oral

what ppl haven't said is that they have had EXACTLY the same problem as you. you aren't different or special or worse than anybody else or wrong. you are just the same. my b/f had to work through this issue too. i just felt like it was necessary to tell you that this is real common and that there is nothing wrong with you that's making you this way. it's just nature.

in a way it's a compliment for your girl. i always took it as a compliment...it just meant that when he put his penis inside me it felt SO good that it made him cum almost immediately. that's the way i liked him to feel...awesome from the very minute he got it in me. see...it's all about your attitude.

so, while i do appreciate that my vagina feels outstanding to him and it can "send" him into orgasm within a minute or so, i also appreciate it when he can last a little longer for me...sooooooooooo...do what ppl say above. jack off beforehand...etc. so you last a little longer.

just don't feel like there's anything wrong with YOU because you cum too soon once in a while. it's just that her vagina feels so good!

i hope you can work through this, friend. i think you prolly can!
jasmine

rap a rubberband around the base of your penis.not to tight just enough to cut off some circulation. it works i do this and makes your dick bigger