I am 23yrs old male, and in a good health
but I can't seem to control my orgasm! I
mean after 2 - 3 mins of insertion, I
would get off. It is frustrating for my
partner and even worse for me. And now we
are at a point where my partner would
avoid having sex with me. :(
is there anything that can be done to
overcome my problem? I sure would
appreciate your help, if you can. Thanks
you so much and have a great day...
Thanks in advance.
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king2004
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Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 01-06-05 21:02pm
How about having oral sex first? Then u
can stick the meat stick in the woman
how about having oral sex first? Then u
can stick the meat stick in the woman
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it kinda takes the ecitement away! You
know what I mean?
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 01-30-05 11:33am
The first thing you must understand is
that this is mental issue. You can
control your orgasm if you really want
to... All men can. Try not
concentrating so much on what's happening
to let yourself last longer.
Another approach is to masturbate a good
1-2 hours in advance and orgasm. Your
second orgasm will take much longer as
your body requires time to build up
reserves before release.
A third thing you can do is use a thicker
condom which really does take away from
the sensitivity and feeling of
penetration. Less stimualation = last
longer.
This may be something you want to practice
how to do on your own first... Staying
hard for prolonged periods of time, and
ejaculating only when ready.
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 01-30-05 11:33am
The first thing you must understand is
that this is mental issue. You can
control your orgasm if you really want
to... All men can. Try not
concentrating so much on what's happening
to let yourself last longer.
Another approach is to masturbate a good
1-2 hours in advance and orgasm. Your
second orgasm will take much longer as
your body requires time to build up
reserves before release.
A third thing you can do is use a thicker
condom which really does take away from
the sensitivity and feeling of
penetration. Less stimualation = last
longer.
This may be something you want to practice
how to do on your own first... Staying
hard for prolonged periods of time, and
ejaculating only when ready.
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dominique
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Joined: 14 Oct 2003 Posts: 83
Posted: 02-18-05 00:10am
Justin, how is it you know the answer
to..Well everything ? Haha. I'm not
yelling at you or saying your answers are
wrong. I really think it's funny. You
always have good advice!
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fallingup
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Joined: 21 Feb 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Waco, Texas
Posted: 02-22-05 13:44pm
Yeah jus beat yo meat before u smash
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 02-22-05 17:59pm
dominique
wrote:
justin, how is it you know
the answer to..Well everything ? Haha.
I'm not yelling at you or saying your
answers are wrong. I really think it's
funny. You always have good
advice!
simple. I'm a robot. :shock:
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watty
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Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 2 Location: penrith
Posted: 03-23-05 02:40am
To last longer when your about to orgasm
slow down a lot. When your ready again go
for it then slow down again and so on. U
can practice this by masturbating
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starrnova16
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Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Indiana
Benzoicaine Posted: 03-23-05 04:29am
Okay, thats prolly not how you spell it,
but it is used in some condoms that
actually kinda numb the penis and is
supposed to make you last longer. I'm not
sure of course because i'm not a guy, and
I don't know any who have tried it but who
knows. This might help you, but its worth
a try. I know durex makes a condom with
it.
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Unifier
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Posted: 10-09-08 12:12pm
try jacking off b4 you meet her (at least
a couple of hours b4) and this should help
you last longer b4 you shoot lol
also to help her enjoy the whole
experience more try giving her oral like
King2004 says IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT IT
TAKES THE FUN AWAY there are two of you ya
know.. besides its the dick part thats the
problem atm. you dont wont her avioding
sex with you so please her and
COMMUNICATE.
oral sex, jack off b4, spend more time on
foreplay
gd luck
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furrytail
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Posted: 10-09-08 18:26pm
Well there have been a lot of comments
given, and thanks to Justin for some
excellent ones.
I agree with working on controlling the
orgasm through practice by masturbating,
also masturbating a few hours before will
help tremendously. You may also be able to
find solutions to dullen the sensitivity
of your penis (see you doctor aobut this,
and don't be embarassed as this is
something that happens to a lot of guys).
