I think you finally figured out what is wrong with my boyfriend. It is very similar to what you described. Please check out this website. It is very informative and professional. I am only dismayed that it was so hard to find. I googled and googled. I finally gave up and went to altavista. That eventually led me to pilonidal sinus.
Http://www.Pilonidal.Org/
we will be off to the doctor as soon as the insurance is settled. There are some highly recommended doctors in this area, but there also seems to be a lot of quackery.
Thank you so much for sharing this information. I am really sorry that you have this disease, it seems to be very bothersome, but knowledge is power. I was very worried about this mystery illness. At least now we can be proactive about caring for this condition. Please keep us posted on your medical progress. Good luck!