To all actually...
After seeing one doctor and not liking their treatment I decided to see another who's been practicing since 78...Well turns out - it was exactly what I told the first doctor I thought it was...Stupid rookie....
Diagnosis:
anyway, my (new) doc diagnosed it as a pilonidal sinus. They are not dangerous/contagious/life threatening/etc. He recommended that it be left alone unless it should be become bothersome (ie: multiple infections or pain).
Operation/treatment:
i went to my new general physician his cost to eliminate is est at $700 /- us (this was his est. For an in house operation). They simply cut the hole out and sew it back up. I personally opted out on that, but to each is own. If left alone (after infection treated) the skin within will toughen similar to our outer skin and become resistant to any problems. It seems that these are fairly common (about 1 of 100 people get them - mostly men) and usually take preference to men with thick/abundant hair in the region. I'm no ape but the hair is thick.
Symptoms:
if there is a discharge you probably have a minor infection which can be treated with anitbiotics (at least that worked for me & haven't had any problems since), usually the cause of the infection is due to an ingrown (or otherwise) hair. If you have further questions please feel free to post as I think this link will eventually help eliminate alot of unneeded stress in others lives. Now i'm not saying that I am right about anyone who has symptoms of this as i'm not a doctor. I'm only going by my own experiences.
Possible other diagnosis:
anal fistula - tunnel or tract which is trying to connect between intestine and buttock.
Fissure - usually on or near anus opening -very small.
Pilonidal cyst - usually same hole with noticable pain caused by cyst or other abscess.
Causes for sinus:
generally unknown but typical patient has thick or abundant hair, prolonged sitting periods or lack of blood flow to that region.
Other:
generally has little to do with bowl movements and/or diet, however a diet high in fiber helps with the "flow" of things, if you know what I mean.
I hope you found this helpful and would advise you see a doc just to confirm our research. I wouldn't get worked up though since there's no pain - it's likely the same as here. Rest easy & good day!