In my opinion you really need to talk to him. There seems to be a big lack in comunication! What you're saying is that basically your sex life is "all about him", and that's just not the way it's supposed to be.. Sex is supposed to be good for both of you, it should be fun! Does he try to give you pleasure?? I think you should find a way to "investigate" each other, to talk about sex and find out what you both like,and never do it just because he wants you to. That way it will never improve, and you have a right to have a great sex life too!

Not sure this will help you, but I tried!

Good luck

In my opinion you really need to talk to him. There seems to be a big lack in comunication! What you're saying is that basically your sex life is "all about him", and that's just not the way it's supposed to be.. Sex is supposed to be good for both of you, it should be fun! Does he try to give you pleasure?? I think you should find a way to "investigate" each other, to talk about sex and find out what you both like,and never do it just because he wants you to. That way it will never improve, and you have a right to have a great sex life too!

Not sure this will help you, but I tried!

Good luck

Thx tete...But my problem is not with him..It's just with my I never have pleausure even with other guys,....And I don't even like masturbuating

My friend had the same problem, she came to relize that she is not enjoying sex no matter who it is.. So she decide to try girls and you know what she loves it and now she's a lesbian. So think about that...Hope I helped

I don't think being a lesbian is what I want ...I'm straight and I want to stay as I am..

I don't think being a lesbian is what I want ...I'm straight and I want to stay as I am..

You should probably spice it up a lil bit to make it more exciting then maybe youll enjoy it better. Try having sex elsewhere besides the bed and around the house. Do something exciting that you might get introube for ex. Sex in the car, park, lake etc. Just something that might excite you more to enjoy and have fun.


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