Ok, I guess nobody on the site has this problem, or possibly nobody has been on the site in awhile. I really need help with this. It's still happening. We have tried other positions, she's givin me head before we have sex also, nothing is working. Should I maybe start with a condom, and after I release the first time, take it off and then go at it again? Would that work? Does anyone know?

- presise

no my friend you are using the wrong tecneick, what you have to do is forget that you dont have earicktion. It is bit hard to do first time , you start to worry about before the intercorse that can you make her come. What to do before you do any thing tell her you are going down on her and make her com and dont worry about me then first you both have couple of drinks. And then give her lick and ask her how she wants it, and make sure she comes . Once she come that presure will go away from you to make her com , and then you can shag her bravely without any concern that she have to come one you do that then you get brave and shag her any time you want , and it will work , and think you are not the only one had this problum . Nearly every one go through this , good luck.

Sounds to me like you are cumming too soon. And actually being able to keep going after ejaculation is something most men can't do anyway.

Sometimes if a man takes viagra he can stay hard after ejaculation. The trouble is, if premature ejaculation is your problem viagra may do more harm than good. This is because viagra will make the penis more sensitive in most cases. So taking viagra may make your p.E. Problem worse.

I'd suggest getting your wife off first via oral or manual stimulation then enter her and ejaculate. The older you get the less of a problem cumming too soon will be.

Well it's a "your mileage may vary" kind of anecdotal thing. Technically, what you say is true. The makers of viagra have never claimed an increase in penis sensitivity. But take for instance men who suffer from retarded ejaculation. A symptom of re these men complain about is a numb penis which prevents them from reaching their orgasmic threshold and ejaculating. Now this numb penis thing is really all in their heads. But, when these men are prescribed viagra many claim increased penile sensitivity.





Now this could be some kind of placebo effect. I think what you said about
getting and staying hard may be the key to this reported increase in sensitivity. Getting and keeping an erection is just one less thing to worry about and in retarded ejaculation and psychosexual erectile dysfunction, performance stress is one of the leading causes of the dysfunction.





Placebo effect or real, physical increased sensitivity, it doesn't really matter as long as it works.





In the case premature ejaculation, any kind of increased sensitivity placebo or real will cause problems. An erect penis is more sensitive than an unerect one so that in itself may cause trouble.





But like I said it's a your mileage may vary type of thing. The original poster should get a free sample of viagra and give it a try. If it works great, but it may backfire.

No, wrong sex. Although one of my female collegues tried it and it caused her to be multiorgasmic for the first time in her life.