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JeNn134
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Location: Ohio
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Hey Guys I Need As Much As Possiable
Posted: 12-30-04 21:03pm
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I told my sister last weekend that I might
be preggo and she decied to tell my mom so
now wendesday I am going to the doctor's
to find out if I am preggo and if i'm not
i'm being put on the pill
i don't know why but apart of me wants to
be preggo and the other half hopes i'm not
I was trying to keep it from my mom
untill I knew for sure well that didn't
happen
i am 19 and if I am preg I am 1-2 months
along
i need alot of good luck for wen
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:13pm
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Good luck to you. Have you taken hpts??
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:20pm
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I took one on saturday but nothing showed
up not even a neg so I must have done
something wrong
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:24pm
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It seems to me you have been thinking you
are pregnant for a while now, and it seems
as if maybe you really want to be pregnant
and may be in denial or somthing. I
would just take another hpt and if it is
negative, I would believe it. I mean, how
long has it been since you had unprotected
sex?
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:26pm
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We think it happened nov 15 but we have
been having alot of unprotective sex since
then like last night
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:31pm
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Nov 15th? Im sure you would be getting a
positive by now. Why are you having
unprotected sex if you are so scared of
getting pregnant? Are you ready for a
baby, are you married?
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:38pm
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Well I am 19 and I am still with my b/f (
the guy who I might be preg by ) well 2
years ago he lost his ex g/f to a car reck
and she was 3 months preg so I want to
have a baby to a point but I know I am too
young and that I couldn't afford it
deffently if jay left me I am looking for
a 2nd job to help and he's doing the same
i am trying to not worry about it much
but my tummy is getting bigger and I get
sick as a dog at night ( I just don't
throw up ) I have not thown up since I was
8 years old I just get sick to my tummy
and I have been doing nothing but eating
and jay is a bit happy but he's scared and
worried enough for the both of us of
course I don't blame him we are a bit
young but if I am then we will work threw
it
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:47pm
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You want to get pregnant because he lost a
pregnant girlfriend in a car crash? Seems
for all the wrong reasons. And I
remember many posts from you saying that
your boyfriend will only stay with you if
you are pregnant. Im sorry girl, im not
trying to be mean, but I dont think you
are pregnant, and I really think you
should be having protected sex. You said
it yourself, you can not afford it. Dont
bring another life into this world
purposly when you know this. Just my
opinion.
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 21:52pm
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Well I do agree but with both of our
income together we could afford it jay
makes about 135 every 2 weeks right now
wendy's is only working me maybe once a
week so that is why I am looking for a 2nd
job
but yes I agree with you but like my mom
says the condom can break witch has
happened to me and jay before and it's
also hard to find a condom that fits him
comfortably
( not that you wanted to know that )
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:01pm
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Well then get on the pill. He makes $135
every 2 weeks??? And you work one day a
week, and you think you can afford it?!
Woa! I make about $550 every 2 weeks, and
eric makes about $800 every two weeks and
we are struggling. I think you may be
confused.
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:06pm
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Well we are both looking for a second job
I know we will struggle and I do think our
parents would help too since my mom found
out yesterday that I might be preg she
wasn't even mad she just asked me why I
kept it from her and not tell her and I
just told her I was scared but she
understood his parents don't know yet he
wants to tell them when we are sure about
it and my mom agreed to not tell my step
dad because I know he will flip out on me
and I don't want or need that right now
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:18pm
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Hm you are scared but are having
unprotected sex? Im sorry, I know I might
sound mean, but I just think you are
making the wrong decision. You should
wait to have a baby.
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:21pm
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I don't know why but I really think jay is
the right guy for me but you are right I
should wait to have a baby but it might be
too late well I will know wenesday
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:34pm
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Well if you find out you arent, please,
get on the pill!! And find some darn
condoms that fit him! And wait wait
wait!! For your sake and the babys sake
:wink:
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:39pm
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Ohh if it comes back that i'm not I am
being put on the pill for sure
well he hates wearing condoms heck I
don't blame him
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:41pm
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Of course he hates wearing condoms....But
its either he gets your pregnant or wears
the dang things.
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JeNn134
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:43pm
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Well 2 years ago he lost his ex g/f and
she was 3 months preggo so I think I am
kinda taking her place or I must be
somthing close to how she was
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:46pm
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Your taking her place? Dont you want him
to love you for who you are, but not of
what you remind him of?? Hmmm
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peanutbuttertreasure
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:51pm
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I'm....Gonna keep......My mouth.....Shut
:roll: :lol:
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sarahsweet
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