Good luck to you. Have you taken hpts??

I took one on saturday but nothing showed up not even a neg so I must have done something wrong

It seems to me you have been thinking you are pregnant for a while now, and it seems as if maybe you really want to be pregnant and may be in denial or somthing. I would just take another hpt and if it is negative, I would believe it. I mean, how long has it been since you had unprotected sex?

We think it happened nov 15 but we have been having alot of unprotective sex since then like last night

Nov 15th? Im sure you would be getting a positive by now. Why are you having unprotected sex if you are so scared of getting pregnant? Are you ready for a baby, are you married?

Well I am 19 and I am still with my b/f ( the guy who I might be preg by ) well 2 years ago he lost his ex g/f to a car reck and she was 3 months preg so I want to have a baby to a point but I know I am too young and that I couldn't afford it deffently if jay left me I am looking for a 2nd job to help and he's doing the same
i am trying to not worry about it much but my tummy is getting bigger and I get sick as a dog at night ( I just don't throw up ) I have not thown up since I was 8 years old I just get sick to my tummy and I have been doing nothing but eating and jay is a bit happy but he's scared and worried enough for the both of us of course I don't blame him we are a bit young but if I am then we will work threw it

You want to get pregnant because he lost a pregnant girlfriend in a car crash? Seems for all the wrong reasons. And I remember many posts from you saying that your boyfriend will only stay with you if you are pregnant. Im sorry girl, im not trying to be mean, but I dont think you are pregnant, and I really think you should be having protected sex. You said it yourself, you can not afford it. Dont bring another life into this world purposly when you know this. Just my opinion.

Well I do agree but with both of our income together we could afford it jay makes about 135 every 2 weeks right now wendy's is only working me maybe once a week so that is why I am looking for a 2nd job
but yes I agree with you but like my mom says the condom can break witch has happened to me and jay before and it's also hard to find a condom that fits him comfortably
( not that you wanted to know that )

Well then get on the pill. He makes $135 every 2 weeks??? And you work one day a week, and you think you can afford it?! Woa! I make about $550 every 2 weeks, and eric makes about $800 every two weeks and we are struggling. I think you may be confused.

Well we are both looking for a second job I know we will struggle and I do think our parents would help too since my mom found out yesterday that I might be preg she wasn't even mad she just asked me why I kept it from her and not tell her and I just told her I was scared but she understood his parents don't know yet he wants to tell them when we are sure about it and my mom agreed to not tell my step dad because I know he will flip out on me and I don't want or need that right now

Hm you are scared but are having unprotected sex? Im sorry, I know I might sound mean, but I just think you are making the wrong decision. You should wait to have a baby.

I don't know why but I really think jay is the right guy for me but you are right I should wait to have a baby but it might be too late well I will know wenesday

Well if you find out you arent, please, get on the pill!! And find some darn condoms that fit him! And wait wait wait!! For your sake and the babys sake :wink:

Ohh if it comes back that i'm not I am being put on the pill for sure

well he hates wearing condoms heck I don't blame him

Of course he hates wearing condoms....But its either he gets your pregnant or wears the dang things.

Well 2 years ago he lost his ex g/f and she was 3 months preggo so I think I am kinda taking her place or I must be somthing close to how she was

Your taking her place? Dont you want him to love you for who you are, but not of what you remind him of?? Hmmm

I'm....Gonna keep......My mouth.....Shut :roll: :lol:

Lol...Hi hun