Sounds like you could use some help! I just recently started the pill as well, and I have had terrible headaches... They some now and then still, but thank goodness they arent a constant pain! I have been needing a lot of sleep too, and all I can do, and you too, is sleep! You need your rest because you starting taking new hormones and your body is working in over time to adjust to them... Of course its hard on us! The puffy eyes, and the cramps I havent experienced. Every woman is different when she starts the pill... Side effects very. But for the time being stick it out, and let your body adjust. Give it another week or two and then go to the doc, there might be a better pill out there for you.
Sarah